The hour is over...what are you going to do?

tmp-354536812503300 · November 2009

I was thinking about it over the last hour, I'm not sure if I'm going to put my siggy back up just yet. Obviously keta still hasn't returned and seen the post with all the condolences. I wonder if it might be good to wait a bit longer to put my siggy and pic back up in case she signs on.

What are you planning to do?

pixiedustie · November 2009

I am going to wait but I may post the candle I lit for Christopher.

carolinag · November 2009

i too am planning on waiting a bit.

thank you ladies so much. i cannot believe the show of support you all have contributed to. you are truly amazing.

californiafrog7905 · November 2009

Keeping mine as is for now; doesn't seem right to me to change it yet. I hope she does see them/the posts one day.

Nancy_Louise · November 2009

I'm not putting my siggy back just yet.

JoyousJulia · November 2009

I don't think I'm ready either. I think I'll wait another couple of days at least.

RufflesRambo · November 2009

I am going to wait as well.

It's really been amazing to watch everyone pull together through this.

preg_amy · November 2009

I was thinking the same thing. I hope that she stopped by and saw all of the support. Not because we should get recognition for it, but just so that she knows how many people (strangers, even) are thinking about her and her family.

12-24 and TTCAL had no posts (ETA: almost) for an hour in the middle of the day... I'm touched by how much boards on the Bump can come together for one of their fellow bumpies.

I'm not sure what I'm going to do about my siggy... I'll probably wait a little while.

Karma1969 · November 2009

I put mine back in, but I really didn't know anything about this until about 90 minutes ago. I'm not a regular poster though. I did light a candle under the Bump section.

nicoleRI · November 2009

I just signed on a little over an hour ago since last Wednesday and I just want to say that I think you ladies did a really nice thing with the hour no-post and siggies. I hope even if she doesn't sign on and know what we are doing that she can somehow FEEL the support.

mary5198 · November 2009

I'm leaving mine out for a while.

Lucky_Dragonfly · November 2009

I'm going to wait alittle bit. It seems so strange to have it down and then as soon as its "ok" to run to put it back up again. To me it almost feels like if i put it back up right away I was only doing the "bandwagon support" for her.

FYI- If you want to put yours back up I don't hold anything against you. This is just MO.

mlf625 · November 2009

I put mine back in, mainly because I wanted my ticker back up because I couldn't remember how many weeks I "turned" over the weekend. ?

My heart goes out to ketamarie and I'll continue to think of and pray for her and her family. I'm so honored to be a part of such a supportive board. ?We have our differences, but when it matters, everyone pulled together. ?

yoko589 · November 2009

I am leaving mine as is. I can't do anything at work anyway since everything is blocked. I think it would be best to leave it be for a while longer...

inbetweendreams · November 2009

I think I'm going to wait. I'm not sure for how long.

MrsVictoriaB · November 2009

I'm going to wait until it feels right which it just doesn't yet

14years · November 2009

I'm going to wait. I was gone all weekend and just learned about this tragedy this morning. Just keep crying at work.

I can't imagine when keta will feel up to logging back on, but she may not see any of this for a while.

Lisichka · November 2009

Lucky_Dragonfly:
I'm going to wait alittle bit. It seems so strange to have it down and then as soon as its "ok" to run to put it back up again. To me it almost feels like if i put it back up right away I was only doing the "bandwagon support" for her.

FYI- If you want to put yours back up I don't hold anything against you. This is just MO.

ITA. I feel like if I put my siggy back up right now, it'd seem like I was doing it just because everyone else is. Also, if ketamarie does sign in in the next few days, it may still be painful or her.

I'm absolutely astounded by the support all these women are giving her, some of us without even knowing her!

punkfiction_v.3 · November 2009

im the one who originally made a comment about taking down sigs, but to be honest, i doubt ketamarie isn't going to be surfing the net. i am putting my sig back up as normal.
eta: minus the pics

Momma.Brown · November 2009

i'm waiting. it doesnt seem right to put it back up yet.

tmp-354536812503300 · November 2009

punkfiction_v.3:
im the one who originally made a comment about taking down sigs, but to be honest, i doubt ketamarie isn't going to be surfing the net. i am putting my sig back up as normal.
eta: minus the pics

Thank you for that, I re-mentioned it the other day. I didn't want that to be forgotten. You were the initiator of the great idea!

Lucky_Dragonfly · November 2009

punkfiction_v.3:
im the one who originally made a comment about taking down sigs, but to be honest, i doubt ketamarie isn't going to be surfing the net. i am putting my sig back up as normal.
eta: minus the pics

you're soo smart!!!, but it was a great idea to do for her.

punkfiction_v.3 · November 2009

haha i wasn't looking for a thumbs up

(but thanks!) merely stating that im obvs not a bandwagon jumper, but still putting my sig back

rlthomas7 · November 2009

I put mine back up. I don't think she's going to be coming on here anytime soon. And I had a hard time answering questions without the siggys - like I'd answer and think that my answer worked for an almost 2 year old boy, but if the OP was written by someone with a 14 month old girl, it wouldn't be a good answer. And I identify so many people by their signatures!

Daisy77 · November 2009

I'm leaving mine as is for now. I'll add part of it later on but will probably leave the pic out for a while.

thomas&lynn · November 2009

I will probably hold off on pics for another day or two but for now I just wrote in the basics. Tickers maybe back in tomorrow? Not sure yet.

femmeftle9 · November 2009

I think I'll leave my siggy alone for a little while longer. I had to walk away from the computer... 12 o'clock hit & I was in tears all over again. My heart breaks for Ketamarie & her family.

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