Sorry, I've been outrageously busy.
I moved back into the house, but DH and I are going to counseling. I got a job (yup, in addition to being a SAHM and full time student), but the hours aren't steady. However, I'll take what I can get. DH still hasn't found another job, and in fact his boss just increased his day from 8 to 9 hours. So he now gets to sit doing nothing for 9 hours a day. At this point, seriously, I just want to get through the next couple of years so that I can be done with school and support DD and myself. Yes, I will more than likely not stay with DH at that point. Right now, however, my options are extremely limited. Living with my parents is extremely difficult, and while I love them like crazy, it makes our relationship incredibly strained. So, for as long as I can, I'll stay here at the house and DH and I will continue counseling, and I'll continue to urge him to find another job.
Clearly not how I want things to be. But he's not the man I thought he was, so that's to be expected.
I hope all is well and hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving.
I have 5 exams to do (yup, one is even due on Thanksgiving DAY, and the prof hasn't posted the lecture yet...awesomeness). So I'm going back to running around like a crazy woman.
Re: An update was requested
Take care of yourself and try to get some good rest. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate!!
HUGS
Thanks for the update! We're here for you if you need some bumpie supports!