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goillini823 · November 2009

We went in for our big u/s today only to find out baby had stopped growing two weeks ago. This is such an empty feeling. I have to wait til Mon. to have D&C due to the holiday. I dont know what I'm going to do about Thanksgiving. I really dont feel like seeing anyone. We were supposed to reveal the baby's gender instead we just have to let everyone know that this baby grew wings. Sorry just had to vent.

asiamina08 · November 2009

Soo sorry for your loss!!! All I can say is that my T&P are with you. Do what you need to do to heal!! If that means not going to large family gatherings, then do it. Your family will understand!!

doranelly · November 2009

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please be gentle to yourself and do what feels right to you. My thoughts are with you and your family. ((hugs))

ShellShockedMama · November 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.

I think everyone would understand if you just stayed home so you could grieve.

(((hugs))) I really am so sorry

marisslyn · November 2009

I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I know too well about finding out at the gender ultrasound, it is like the worse fear and feels like a bad dream. I had to wait 5 days to have my d&e also. I think your family will understand with what ever you decide to do. I am so sorry again, my heart really feels for you.

pepomntpat · November 2009

I am so very sorry for your loss. {{hugs}} Please take care of yourself and rest and don't go to Thanksgiving if you do not feel up to it.

Pixiestx · November 2009

I'm very sorry, especially because I've been there and then had to walk around still pg for almost 2 weeks. I hope you can make it through this weekend ok and your family can offer you comfort and just lots of hugs.

Sonadora · November 2009

I'm very sorry for your loss.

JuJuBe3 · November 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. If you need to skip Thanksgiving, by all means, do it. Everyone needs their time and space. We were going to reveal our pg on Thanksgiving.

This board is really great, I hope it helps you through this difficult time.

madladybride · November 2009

I'm sorry to hear about this. Please take care of yourself. Do what you need to do to feel better and if that means staying home, sitting on the couch and eating ice cream, so be it!

MSC03 · November 2009

That is so awful--I am so unbelievably sorry.

Temp950106187509203 · November 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree with PP -- if you feel like you need to skip the big family get together, then skip it. Your family should understand. {{hugs}}