Yet again, my body's timing sucks (vent)

missred75 · November 2009

I think I'm putting the cart a bit ahead of the horse, but bear with me...

I started spotting today. WAY early. (And, I KNOW I'm not pregnant. DH was gone for training.) I'm not supposed to start AF 'til Thanksgiving. We're supposed to be back to doing IUIs this cycle, but if I have CD1 tomorrow, my day 10 u/s would be the 28th. My REs office is closed from Wed. afternoon through Monday for Thanksgiving & they don't do special circumstances for IUIs, only IVFs. (I go to a military hospital and my RE is a military doctor.) I can't call today because they won't even talk to me about options until I have CD1 flow.

I thought the timing was going to work out great and we were looking at doing the IUI in early December. Now I'm afraid he won't even let me cycle this month if we can't do an ultrasound until day 12?!?!

This just goes with all of the other wonderful timing issues we've had in the past:

- DH having training when my doctor was around (3X)
- Doctor having training when DH was around (2X)
- Cysts canceling cycle when both dr. and DH were around (3X)
- DH's deployment to Iraq (15 mos.)
- dr.'s deployment to Iraq (6 mos.)
- traveling and having to cancel the cycle (2X)

My body seriously has the worst timing of anyone I've ever met. AF always shows up early or late when the cycle REALLY REALLY matters, but right on time every other month. I really hope we can somehow figure out how to do this cycle.

Vent over. Thanks for listening.