TTC After a Loss

Happiness may be short-lived

I'm bleeding.  Not spotting, but bleeding.  Cramping has started, too.

Called the office, and she told me to call in the am to get more betas done.  Right, because there's nothing I love more than "wait and see".

I haven't seen the MW that I talked to (she was on-call one), and she didn't understand how I m/c last month, and I'm pg this month.  Really isn't rocket science, but thanks for making me sit and explain it to you when I'm already freaking out.  Awesome.

To make matters worse, DH isn't here tonight and I have to take care of DD.

I want to curl up into a ball and cry and go to bed.  I feel like it's a deja vu nightmare.

Bunny 05.2008//mc 9.2009//Bubba 07.2010//mc 10.2011//
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  • I'm so sorry!  You are in my T&P. 

    Hopefully everything will work out and the bleeding will stop.

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  • I am so sorry you're going through this. (((hugs)))
  • Oh sweetie :(

    ::sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts::

    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • OH no! I'm so sorry you're going through this! ((HUGS)). You're in my prayers!
    oh please. not KU. effed up.
  • Oh no maybe the bleeding will stop. Don't lose hope yet. Is there anyone that can help with DD so you can get off your feet?
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  • Oh no! I hope it all stops and everything is a-ok!!

    I'll be praying for you!!

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  • I'm so sorry. I'm keeping you in my prayers. Big hugs your way.
  • :(

     

    Good thoughts coming your way.

    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • Oh No! I am so sorry you are going through this. You will be in my prayers.
  • Oh Dear.  I'm so sorry.... ::HUG::

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  • big hugs girl.

    wishing the best for you.

  • Try to do what you can to take care of your daughter and not put any unnecessary stress on yourself.  Then, when you get the chance, go lay down and stay there.
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  • Thank you, everyone.

    (as a sidenote: I'm not sure which is worse, 1-starring a BFP post by a regular, or 5-staring a post where someone is sincerly scared and upset about the thought of loosing another pregnancy.  Thanks for that.)

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  • I'm sorry you're going through this! Feet up, deep breaths, and hope the bleeding will calm down.
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  • Oh geez girl I'm so sorry.  You're in my thoughts tonight, hang in there. 
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  • {{{HUGS}}} I hope you get good news tomorrow when you get your betas done.
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  • So sorry about the bleeding, I hope it stops and you can stop worrying.  Sending hugs and thoughts and prayers your way.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • I'm so sorry.  (((HUGS)))
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  • Oh no, what a sh!tty rollercoaster of a day.  I hope things turn out ok.
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  • I'm sorry, I hope your next betas put your mind at ease.

    I'll be praying for you

  • I'm sorry.  Hang in there.
  • oh hon, i'm so sorry you have to go through this. it's awful waiting, especially when you're uncomfortable and bleeding. i truly hope the bleeding will stop and your betas will be nice and high... you deserve to have a happy and healthy 9 months!
  • I am so sorry, hon. I will be thinking and praying very hard for you and LO.
    02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
    10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
    3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
    10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

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  • Oh no!  I hope the bleeding stops soon.  Take care of yourself after you get DD to bed.  What an unbelievable day.  I'm sorry you're going through this.  You're in my prayers.
  • sending you lots of positive thoughts and prayers....

    i hope your beta's tomorrow go well and put your mind at ease.

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  • I am sending you a ton of positive vibes right now; I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
  • I agree with PP that you need to get someone to come over and help w/ DD while you lie down.  No moving, only to use the bathroom kind of lying down, ok?  If not, try to keep your feet up as much as possible and drink water to stay hydrated (possibly cramp related, too). 

    Maybe SAL can help ease your fears and tell you of instances of bleeding, too.  You're in my thoughts and I'm praying that everything will be okay tomorrow.  Hugs to you :(.

  • Oh no!  I can't believe you are going though this, it breaks my heart and I'm so so sorry!

    It might not be the end....I bled, bright red, like AF with DS (3 times actually) and everything was fine.  

    Take good care of yourself tonight.  Hug DD tight (and hope she goes to bed early).  Wishing you the best of luck for tomorrow.

    HUGE HUGS!

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  • I'm so sorry dear.  (((Hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. ((Big Hugs))
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  • Oh no I am so sorry, feet up and drink lots of water, hopefully things work out this time.
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  • oh no, I'm so sorry you're going through this and I'm so sorry you're alone right now!  Ditto all pp's advice, and I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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  • (((HUGS))) you are in my thoughts tonight. 
    I hope the bleeding stops 
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  • I'm sorry you have to go through this.  I hope everything turns out alright. 
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  • *hugs* Your in my T&P.
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.....Sending positive vibes, thoughts, prayers and most of all (((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))) to you tonight!!
  • Oh no!!  I'm praying for you.  I hate being so late with posts.  I congratulated you in a previous post ,and now I feel silly.  But just like Natalie, I'm sticking with my congratulations until proven otherwise.  I hope you get good numbers tomorrow.  Stick BABY Stick!
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  • Hang in there!  Everything might still be ok.  Thinking of you!  {{hugs}}
     
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope it stops and is nothing!  (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm sorry Coastie, you are in my T&P.
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