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TTC After a Loss
Had company today....and she knew about my loss---
A friend of mine from church who has twins the same age as dd and my nephew came to visit today & let the kiddos play.
She was asking about SIL's pregnancy. She knew about my loss. (Note: If u recall, my nephew and dd are only 10 days apart. SIL was the only person dh and I confided in that we were ttc back then---then SIL popped up ku the WEEK b4 I announced my pregancy w/dd---just need to remember that for the rest of the story).....and anyway, the visitor was asking if we "planned all our pregnancies together"........I ducked my head.....(because if you also remember, SIL decided to ttc THE MONTH I was released to ttc, telling me she assumed dh and I would get ku right away again)......My SIL snapped,"NO!".......
In my mind, I'm screaming "Yes---SHE can't help but try to be ME!! SHE decided to try to plan OUR pregnancies for ME! She did---didn't work out for me though bc I can't get a flippin' bfp to save my life now!!!"
Someone should probably smack me---I keep repeating this conversation in my head.....why, I don't know---guess my brain likes to torment my heart!
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Re: Had company today....and she knew about my loss---
Oh that just makes for a sucky day. So sorry.
You totally need to find a way to get even.