TTC After a Loss

I spent the entire day with my mother.

And didn't tell her. It was tortuuuuure! I was feeling sick & tired and she's worried now I have the flu. Not to mention this woman is so involved that she asked me if I started bc I was due today. I babbled something about cramping. It will be worth it to surprise her at Thanksgiving but my god it took all I had.

Re: I spent the entire day with my mother.

  • ha, way to stay strong! It will definitely be worth it when you finally suprise her.
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  • I don't know if I could have stayed as strong! Your family will be so happy when you tell them!!
  • How are you going to tell her?  Anything specific or just tell her you can't drink gin or vodka when she offers it to you?
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  • Way to keep strong Hedi - yes it will sooo worth the suprise! 

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  • OMG! That is such torture. I totally relate- my mom is like a BF to me so keeping anything from her is impossible! I'm way impressed with your restraint but a Thanksgiving Suprise is way worth it! BTW- how are you feeling? Also- I'm just so curious to as did you think you were pregnant this cycle before you poas or did you think you were out?
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  • I bought a bunch of "sneak peak" u/s pic frames I'll wrap and give them. With our struggles it will be water works all around. I just have to catch them all before the get shiitfaced.
  • imageM0815:
    I bought a bunch of "sneak peak" u/s pic frames I'll wrap and give them. With our struggles it will be water works all around. I just have to catch them all before the get shiitfaced.

    Aww thats adorable.  The frame part, not the shiitfaced part.  GL!

  • imagemchell9:
    OMG! That is such torture. I totally relate- my mom is like a BF to me so keeping anything from her is impossible! I'm way impressed with your restraint but a Thanksgiving Suprise is way worth it! BTW- how are you feeling? Also- I'm just so curious to as did you think you were pregnant this cycle before you poas or did you think you were out?
    I'm a little ill. My stomach is icky. Truth be told: I knew something was different this cycle. My lack of phantom symptoms were the first sign & no cramping which is huge for me before AF. The other thing is that I had ridiculous globs of creamy CM 8dpo. Very weird.
  • Wow! I couldnt have done it! It is so going to be worth keeping the secret until Thanksgiving day!
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  • That's willpower, but you're right, it will totally be worth it!

    Do you think they'll display the u/s pic in the house?  I have to admit my MIL has DS's u/s pic displayed in her bedroom and I find it a little....weird.  Like, "hi, that's my uterus on your shelf".

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    That's willpower, but you're right, it will totally be worth it!

    Do you think they'll display the u/s pic in the house?  I have to admit my MIL has DS's u/s pic displayed in her bedroom and I find it a little....weird.  Like, "hi, that's my uterus on your shelf".

    no my MIL would think it's tasteless. She'll put it in the drawer and tell me " the picture is nice dear. Let's just keep it in the family" bless her & her conservative-ness. My mom will not only display it but also copy the pic & dangle it from her key ring & around her neck in a locket.
  • Does your mom not know you have a blog? Do any of your friends know? Just wondering because I don't think my mom would know what a blog is, but I suppose not all moms are so technically clueless.
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  • Good for you!!  I actually tested at my Mom's and it took everything I had not to spill it to her.

    Honestly, I probably would have if it weren't for this place!!!

     

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