TTC After a Loss

Posts like this... irritate me

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/25615351.aspx

 

Ugh... why would you post that on that board??? With your huge ultrasound picture, ticker, and talking about reminding her sister with her pregnancy.... umm what do you think you are doing to all the women on that board who just lost their babies and now get to see your ultrasound pic??

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Re: Posts like this... irritate me

  • Yeah it is a little over the top.....
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  • That is just a douche bag move. I know she was not thinking about it at the time, but if you are asking women who have had m/c if the feel sad or upset when they see pg women how the h*ll do you think they feel seeing your u/s pic and ticker?? I mean really. If she had taken the time to read through just a few posts the would have gotten her answer.
    3 Early Miscarriages 4 rounds of Clomid BFP = 11/16/10 ~ EDD July 29th 2011 Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I agree the picture was a bad idea and it did bother me.  After a few minutes, I sucked it up and answered her because I wanted to her to be a better sister to her sister than my sisters were to me.

    I also agree that this would have been a good time to lurka nd get information before butting in.

    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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  • I think it is incredbily insensitive and close minded.... People just don't get it until they experience it themselves.

    :::uuggghhhh:::

  • I agree... those are the worst!
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