DH and I along with our fellow preggers friend Tara got to take a tour of the hospital we plan on delivering at. It was pretty informative although I felt like we were being looked down upon by a few people in the group because of our age. I'm 20 but look about 17 or 18 and Tara looks 15 or 16. And the tour lady was a little snappish about a few of my questions but other than that we highly enjoyed our tour! Has anyone else done their tour yet?
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Re: Hospital Tour Today
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No comment on the snappiness. It might have been for your reasons (I look like a teenager, so I know what you mean) or it could have been because you aren't very far along.
Anyway, hospitals can change some of the dynamics (visitor policies, etc) over the course of a few months, so be sure to check back in during your 3rd trimester.
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i agree, I was surprised to see someone went that early. Girl, your on the ball. I haven't toured my hospital yet for the same reason, often things can change and i don't want to keep checking back. kudos for you though for planning so far ahead.
Thanks! I tend to be an over-planner. I'm using this tour as more of a "which hospital will I deliver at" interview. I'll probably tour again when I pre-register.
My hospital won't let you take it until you're within two months of your due date. My guess is you could have been asking questions that you might not have had had you taken the tour later in your pregnancy. Or, since you took it so early and are young, you don't look pregnant and they might not have thought you were serious.
Or, you're just reading way too much into it.
My DH and I took a tour last week but only because I am trying to chose between 2 hospitals in my town. Each has different things to offer but depending on which I chose I may have to change providers. Which is why I am looking now.
Regarding the nurse being snappy I kind of thought the same about the one doing our tour. I don't think it has anything to with the care we will receive later. I am thinking it's probably bc they really feel comfortable doing them....maybe uncomfortable with groups or thinking about the more pressing matters at work like ladies currently in labor or moms that need to be looked in. I wouldn't take it personal or worry about it though. And I don't think it's strange that you did it early...there were a number of ladies in my group that were early in pregnancy. You are just being prepared.
I like that you did an "interview" tour. I've got two hospitals in mine town and they are both recommended by people, so DH and I had a hard time choosing. We only took a virtual tour, but it would be cool if hospitals could do an "interview" tour since it seems like there are so many options any more.