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Thoughts and Prayers needed (Becka mentioned)

Hi ladies, sadly while I was at the doctors office, Becka's Tyler and I were texting and things are not good.  I will tell you the series of events as I know them from Becka and then tell you about what Tyler said today.

Becka had the flu shot on Friday.  Becka and Tyler were married Saturday morning.  By Saturday night Becka was really under the weather with the flu.  The last time Becka and I texted was Monday night saying Tyler took her to the doctor that morning and said it was the flu but she felt it was more in her chest.  She rested and drank lots of fluids.

I texted her today and Tyler answered saying they were at the hospital.  Becka woke him up in the middle of the night soaked in blood.  Turns out she has lost one of the twins and so far the other one is ok.  She is sleeping and not talking to anyone including Tyler. 

Becka wanted to let everyone know and when she is ready she will get a hold of us again but for now she needs space.  Tyler is broken up and just doesn't understand how this can even be happening again.  I was crying everytime he sent me a message back.  This is horrible, poor Becka and Tyler.

Please say thoughts and prayers for them and their little one who needs to pull through this.

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  • Oh, how terrible.  We love you Becka and come back when you're ready.  I pray her LO continues to grow and be strong.

    (((hugs)))

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  • That is so sad.  My thoughts are with her. 
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    I am so sick and tired of this shitt happening to good people. I really am.

     

  • Oh no. She just cant catch a break. Many thoughts and prayers her way.
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  • Oh no.... Not Becka.  I'm so sorry.  :-(  I'll keep her and her LO in my prayers.

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  • Becka....thinking of you! (((hugs))) I am praying for you and Tyler and your LO!
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  • All my thoughts and prayers to her and her family.
  • Oh Gosh... that is awful.  I hope the LO pulls through ok.  It is so unfair people have to continue to go through things like this.  I will keep Becka and her family in my T&P.
  • Oh my God, this really has broken my heart.  I cant' believe this is happening again.  I will keep them both in my prayers. 
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  • Oh No I am so heart broken for her
    I hope the other one sticks & she gets better soon
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  • Oh NO!  that is so awful, I am so sorry she has to go through this shiit again.  My heart breaks for her and Tyler.  Tons of T&Ps headed their way.
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  • Oh no! I'm just heartbroken. Prayers for them right now :(
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  • oh no, i'm so sorry. thoughts and prayers are w/ them.
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  • Oh no my prayers are with her =(
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  • Oh no, this is devastating!  My heart breaks for them.  Becka, Tyler: you guys and your babies are in my thoughts and prayers.  
  • Oh no!!! My thoughts and prayers are with them!!!

     

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  • Oh my god. Poor Becka. This makes me so sad. Praying for them and the other twin to make it through.
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  • This is terrible. We are all thinking about you Becka and Tyler and praying for your LO to grow strong. I am so sorry you are going through such heartache. We will be here whenever you are ready. ((BIG HUGS))
  • How awful! I'll absolutely be sending up every pray and good though I have for them.

    Thinking about you Becka!

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  • Oh no... how heartbreaking! Becka, Tyler, and their little ones are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • OMG, they have been through so much.  When does it end!?!?

    She is in my thoughts and prayers.  And I am praying that other little babe stays strong for his/her parents.

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  • That's terrible news, poor Becka.  My T&P are with them.
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  • Oh no thats awful!!! I hate to world for her today....

    I will be praying for her and her baby...

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    Oh no. She just cant catch a break. Many thoughts and prayers her way.

    This.  I hope she can pull through this for the sake of her baby.  

  • Last time I talked to her was Saturday and she was in high spirits.

    I will be praying for them. 

  • OMG!!! What a rollar coaster emotional weekend for her! I am soo sad to hear this. Please let her know we are thinking about her. :(

  • Noooo.... I am so heartbroken...this can't be happening... ::in tears::  it's not fair God, its just not fair!!!
  • Becka and Tyler will definitely be in my prayers!!
  • That is just so heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with them
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  • This is heartbreaking.  My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family.
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  • This just absolutely breaks my heart. I will be thinking about them and praying thier LO will remain strong.
  • Thank you for the update.  I hope Becka's LO digs in strong and fights through this.  She and Tyler will be in my thoughts.
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  • Oh my......Becka is definately in my thoughts and prayers.

    Please God, let her little one pull through this. Please be with Becka. Please give her comfort in this time, as only you can do. In Jesus' name, Amen.

     

  • How horrible!! I will be keeping Becka and Tyler in my thoughts!
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  • That is awful!  I can't believe she has to deal with this again.  My thoughts are with them. 
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  • This is just not fair.

    It's supposed to be her turn to be happy.

     

    I will be praying.

  • Praying for them both and for their LO!!
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    All my thoughts and prayers to her and her family.

    This!

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  • That's terrible...Becka...I'm sending tons of thoughts and prayers your way!  ((hugs))

  • How horrible!!  Lots of thoughts and prayers to Becka, Tyler and their LO!!  ((BIG HUGS BECKA))
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