Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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I now have 16 friends on 'hide' on my facebook. It seems like every day someone announces they are pregnant. I feel like this whole experience has turned me into a horribly bitter person.
Anyone else hide the pregnant people?
Wife to Tim. Mommy toEmma,Noah,Caleb and Stella This discussion has been closed.
Re: 16
I know how you feel,
same here, my friend gave birth to a beautiful baby girl the same day that I had the D&C procedure. I went to visit her 2 weeks after that, I felt so sad and lonely.
It's normal to be sad and bitter, everyone has a different fate, I guess we just have to accept ours.
BFP #1 2-8-09 Natural M/C 6w1d 2-19-09
BFP #2 5-28-09 C/P 6-1-09
BFP #3 10-30-10 Natural M/C 12-8-10
BFP #4 1-16-12 EDD 9-18-12 Stick baby stick!!
Yes...esp. if they post ALL THE TIME about their pregnancy, complaints, woe is me, etc!!!
I totally understand the occasional post about not being comfortable, can't sleep, updates, etc...but I have 3 I've hidden because of the CONSTANT updates, and one I want to throat punch!!!
GEAUX TIGERS!!!
1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09
June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids
2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10
Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful
HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!
Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!
9/13/09-Twin boys born at 23 weeks due to Pprom.
Ethan and Jacob-our beautiful angel babies lived for 11 minutes and 23 hours.
Single embryo FET 12/2009-BFP! Blake born 8/2010 at 39 weeks after 36 hours of labor and an emergency c section < IVF 2- BPF! Due April 27th Our Story
I am so with you. I actually had to de-friend one couple over it,,,it was just constant all day long. Not that Im not happy, it just really got on my nerves quickly. I swear, its all the BOTH of them talked about -if it wasnt her - it was him. Plus they spilled the beans on FB at like 5 weeks pg so its been going on for weeks - I cant imagine another 25 weeks of it. Hell, I will take your sore back, hurting boobies, stomach pooch and morning sickness anyday. My husband would love to tend to a wife with mood swings, hot flashes, and cravings
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It just had to be done and at first I thought I was being b*tchy, but now I realize it was just the rational thing I had to do for my own sanity.
What really hurt me was the pregnant people in the drs office today and going into the ultra sound to see if the sac was gone and having to see all the ultra sound pics on the wall.