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Too jaded to hang out on 1st Tri

nicobean1nicobean1 member
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Is it just me? Having experienced a loss, I just cannot dig on hanging out on 1st tri. Too many people who are blissfully ignorant. Your thoughts?

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Re: Too jaded to hang out on 1st Tri

  • savernesaverne
    I totally felt like that too, and have mostly lurked on the tri boards since getting pg again.  I think those boards can be entertaining, but it is too snarky for me.  I do prefer the more laid back, accepting feel of this board.  I also needed to be able to post about my fears and get support from women who understand my pov better, and SAL is great for that.
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  • sak5457sak5457
    I agree.  I was just thinking the same thing as I read through the drama relating to the "twins" post on 1st tri.
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  • nicobean1nicobean1 member

    imagesak5457:
    I agree.  I was just thinking the same thing as I read through the drama relating to the "twins" post on 1st tri.

    I know, right?! That was a load of cr*p. Too weird. And I feel so much better with my SAL and TTCAL'ers.

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  • bcuzofubcuzofu

    I can't do it anymore.  Sometimes I lurk to read some posts and then I just want to comment so I can scream @ them.  (maybe its the hormones!) 

    My 1st loss was over 13 yrs ago, the last 2 losses were nov 07, and nov 08.  I am still so sensitive about this pregnancy.

     

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  • mjs8208mjs8208
    I am new.. I just feel any question I post on there they don't care or don't answer.  I want to know experiences of course but sometimes they avoid my question all together.  I am just so excited and fearful at the same time I can't stand myself.  I just like having this board to be able to relate to others and help them as I would want to be helped.
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  • nicobean1nicobean1 member
    I also just can't take the complaints about pregnancy symptoms. I'm grateful for every symptom cause I know things are still cooking in there.
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  • smtaylor1smtaylor1 member
    Those boards terrify me.  Between the snarkiness and the frequent scares/mc and dumb questions I just can't do it.  I prefer this board!
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  • Jenny086Jenny086
    Yeah, I occassionally lurk, but I can't bring myself to post.  I feel like people actually care on this board.  After what we all have been through, it's nice to have nothing but support.  Plus, I don't have much patience for stupid, and there is too much on that board for my taste!
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  • TeenyLilacTeenyLilac
    I can't handle 1st tri either.  I just want to smack most of the posters and give them a big fat reality check. 
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  • vegbear@yahoo.comvegbear@yahoo.com

    I posted on there a couple of times but they are all so goofy! and all the complaints and blah blah blah--get over it I say!! Your pregnant live it up!!

    As we all know it can be taken so quickly so shut the heck up and enjoy it....hopefully for a nice full healthy 9 months!

    Argh!! :) 

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