TTC #2 since Sept '16
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TTC #1- 3 failed rounds of Clomid/ Surprise Natural BFP w/weight loss- 9/22/11 DD 5/12
DX. Dec '09 w/ Inappropriate LH Secretion Syndrom/PCOS/ Anov 28 months
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Re: An interesting nugget (Long)
If my DH volunteered to do the dishes, I wouldn't care WHEN they got done. Her trying to tell him when he should be doing something makes it sound like she's treating him like a child and is a controlling b!tch.
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she needs to relax a little. sounds like he was going to get them done, who cares when. pick your battles.
The guy's not a mind reader...she should have just asked him to do the dishes! THat was a loooot of text about a small issue IMO.
Also--blue--love the title of this post. made me giggle a little. I like the word nugget.
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The best part of that horrendous post is her siggy, which reads "Married to the love of my life."
In our house- we dont have chores set for each of us. We both have things we dont ENJOY doing, but as far as doing them- one of us will do what needs to be done. If I get home and dishes need to be put away, i do it. If I dont feel like it, DH will do them or I'll get to them later.
There are so many bigger things to worry about than dishes. She needs to relax.
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Isnt that the truth! Ive definitely lost it on DH for what seemed like nothing 5 minutes after the fact!
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Honestly! All that over dishes!
Yikes. At least she relented after a few posters pointed out that her H isn't a mind reader.
I'm really lucky that my H and I split most of the domesticated activities. Last night my we were discussing house cleaning and he said that he wished I'd develop a laundry addiction. I laughed and told him fat chance.
M/C 9/21/09 | M/C 12/24/09 | BFP 1/23/10
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TTC # 2 Jan 2013
BFP 3/12/13 | EDD 11/18/13
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I actually feel for the girl. DH and I have been in many fights over the dishes
Wow...so not a big deal. My DH and I probably would have just put the dishes in the sick and worried about them in the morning anyways. Sometimes we are so lazy together
EDIT: I meant "sink"