S/O Drunk-Have you been to a bar since LO?

kmf143 · October 2009

I am going out for the first time Halloween..I never have more than 2 drinks & no longer BF but I am wondering if I can have fun or if I am going to feel like I am doing something wrong?

*blondie* · October 2009

dh & I went to the hotel bar with my cousin and her fiance when dd was baptized. my mom took care of dd in our hotel room for the hour we were down there.

ToBeMrsC6907 · October 2009

Honestly, I've been out a few times but all I do is miss him and feel what I like to call "mom guilt"- like I'm doing something wrong. It's def not as enjoyable as it used to be, for me anyway.

jenn11980 · October 2009

We've been to a bar several times. A friend of ours owns a bar and let's people guest bartend to raise money for different things. A friend's coworkers' son has leukemia and has done several guest bartending events to help raise money for their hospital bills. We've gone to all of those.

AngelLuver_02 · October 2009

this weekend after a wedding I was in. my mom watched DD overnight for the first time so we took advantage. but i did feel weird.

Just J · October 2009

I don't feel guilty and I do have fun when I go out (I've only been out a few times-mostly for work happy hours), but I end up worrying about how crappy I am going to feel the next day since I know that LO will wake early and my tolerance is so much lower now! I also worry about how much DD will wake at night!

katie_cj · October 2009

Sort of.

We were at the beach with my ILs and we had lunch at a bar/club, but during the day, it's more like a pub.

I haven't gone out partying. I haven't been part of the bar scene in a long time. I find it too expensive, I'd rather have friends over and drink.

Lesley0228 · October 2009

Nope, DH and I even had a night where DD was with my mom and we ended up just going to dinner and coming home and drinking beers on the back patio. Which is what we usually do on the weekend, just without a baby monitor that time.

LoveEeyore · October 2009

Nope. And #1 is almost 2!!!

It's not a fair comparison b/c I have been pregnant and/or breastfeeding since March 2007.

ljlkm · October 2009

I went to a lunch function for work and there was a cocktail hour before the luncheon. There were a bunch of us standing around having a drink and I didn't feel guilty at all. Of course, I only had the one (which worked for my coworkers--they got my extra drink tickets), but it was still fun.

txbabs111 · October 2009

Yes, I went to New Orleans with my BFF for her 30th b-day so I was in quite a few bars.

jennifersinlove · October 2009

DH and I went out with a few of his co-workers one night. We did end up having a really good time. I was just anxious when we left and when we were driving home. I didn't want to leave her and then I couldn't wait to get home, but I was distracted and had fun at the bar.

kmdixon · October 2009

txbabs111:
Yes, I went to New Orleans with my BFF for her 30th b-day so I was in quite a few bars.

DH and I did a weekend trip to nola to spend some time together before he deployed. Not an ounce of guilt. But I think I would feel a twinge if I had just gone to a bar to get sh!tfaced here in town...Maybe I'm wrong, but I see it being situational.