Is it better to be dilated or really effaced?? I am confused cause I'm 2 cm dilated and 80% effaced with my stitches coming out on Monday and I was told I might not see November as a pregnant woman. But then I read on here that a lot of women are dilated and not close to labor. I'm just confused!
Re: Confused
I don't think this question can really be answered. I was 70% effaced and 0cm last week and haven't had anything happen.
My cousin was 1cm and 0% effaced for two weeks before she went into labor.