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a sad U/S update

Last week I had my first U/S at 7week, 1 day.  RE did not see a fetal pole.  Saw the gestational sac and something.  They had me come back today to see if there were any changes.  I knew it was bad but was holding out hope this last week for a miracle.  Today we went in and they did saw that there was some growth, but the baby was only measuring 6 weeks, no heartbeat, not a viable preg., blah, blah, blah. 
D&C scheduled for Friday.  Im so crushed.  I loved this baby so much already. 
This might be our last change as we are OOP and IVF is our only option to concieve.  H doesnt want to try again.  I dont know how I will feel the hole in my heart if I dont get the opportunity to be a mom. 

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  • Oh hon, I am so sorry

    ((hugs))

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  • i am so sorry....
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    DX: Him: Super sperm Me: Diminished pituitary function due to tumor removed April 2008, MTHFR Hetero C677T & A1298C
    IVF #1-4=BFN IVF #5=BFP! U/S on 5/3 revealed TWINS!

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  • Oh no, no, no.  I am so sorry.  I wish there was something I could do or say, but there just isn't.  (((hugs))) I will be thinking of you. 
    TTC with unexplained IF since 8/2007 6 losses, one beautiful perfect boy in our arms Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • Oh no...I am so very sorry for your loss.
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • MrsKario, I am so so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I was so excited for you and so happy when you got your BFP. Be good to yourself and take care! (((hugs)))

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  • I'm so very sorry for you loss. My thought are with you.
  • I'm so sorry  (((hugs)))
  • I am SO sorry. My heart breaks for you. It is so unfair. Please take care of yourself...try not to make any big decisions today..its too much to think about I'm sure right now. Hugs.   
  • Im really sorry :o((((hugs)))
    TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April
  • Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. ((Hugs))
  • :(

    I am so incredibly sorry.  Huge hugs.


    After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
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  • I am so incredibly sorry you are going through this.  ((HUGE HUGS))

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    IVF #1 = BFP!! So blessed to have our baby boy! IVF #2 = Convert to frozen - 1 frostie! IVF #3 = Convert to frozen - 1 frostie! FET #1 = 8/14, Two transferred, One stuck! Praying for another healthy miracle! Due: 5/2/13 imageLilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I am so sorry...maybe after sometime has passed DH will change his mind about trying again.   (((hugs)))
  • I am so so sorry, how devastating and heartbreaking for you.  You're in my T&P. 
  • Im so sorry sweetie! There are no words.  
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Oh no.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  Big hugs to you.
  • ugh. I am so very sorry. Miscarriages are just awful. I know that hole in the heart feeling and it is devastating. ((Hugs))
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  • Oh no!! I am so so sorry for your loss! (((HUGS)))
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    TTC Since Dec 2006
    *IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
    *IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
    *FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
    *Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
    *Surprise BFP June 2010*
    *Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
    Thoughts from an Overwrought Mind
    SAIFW
  • I am so sorry you are going through this.  You will be in my t & p.
  • Oh hon, I am so, so sorry.  ((( BIG HUGS )))
    TTC #1 w/ endo since Sept 2005. After many losses, a lap, tons of meds and tons of testing and, one failed IVF cycle, we were blown away with a surprise, sticky BFP...it's a girl!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • I am so, so sorry :(
    We are adopting! Currently waiting for our domestic infant adoption match.

    My blog: Making Me Mom

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  • I am so, so sorry.  You will be in my T&Ps.
  • I am so incredibly sorry. 
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  • I am so so sorry. huge ((hugs))...
  • I am so, so sorry.

    (((HUGS)))

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • how heartbreaking. sending you lots of hugs. so sorry.
    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • I am so sorry!  Hugs
    TTC since 8/2004
    Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
    DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
    DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
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  • I'm sorry MrsKario..i was holding out hope for you both!! I hope you can move on from this without much heartbreak.. I'm so sorry!
    IVF - 9/09 - BFN! :( IVF #2 - ER 3/16; ET 3/18 with one embryo Beta 3/30 -- BFN! :( IVF #3 - 5/10 - BFN! IVF #4 - 11/10 - BFP. m/c at 6weeks :( FET #1 - 2/11 - BFP. beta on 2/21 :) Thank you God! :) u/s on 3/7 showed TWINS! u/s on 3/11 TWO heartbeats! Couldn't be happier :)
  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so very sorry.
    B/G twins!
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  • Oh my gosh, I'm so, so, sorry for your loss and your situation.

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    TTC #1 for 5 years - Many years, many tears 3 Clomid IUIs all BFN IVF#1 w/ ICSI = BFP!!!! Beta #1 - 157 11dp3dt, Beta #2 - 340 13dp3dt


    FET for #2 9/1/11 Beta #1 9dp5dt - 153!!! Beta #2 11dp5dt - 426!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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    Psalm 113:9 He settles the barren woman in her home as a happy mother of children. Praise the LORD.
  • I am so very sorry for your loss.
  • Oh Mrs. Kario... i am so very sorry for your loss. Huge Hugs to you
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  It's just not fair.  Please take care of yourself and discuss these big decisions once you've had some time to heal.
  • My heart is breaking for you.  I am so sorry.
  • I am so sorry (((hugs)))
    Stacy
    PCOS, RPL, & Anti Cardiolipin Antibody
  • I am so sorry.
    DS born 7.30.11
  • I am so terribly sorry. 
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