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Finally it's official - I'm miscarrying

This will be my last post on all this drama, many thanks again for holding my hand through this.

My HCG finally stopped rising and the RE is pretty sure I'll m/c naturally since no sac has developed. ?Thank goodness for small favors, I'm not sure I was up for another D&C. ?

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Re: Finally it's official - I'm miscarrying

  • oh Monty, I'm so very, very sorry.
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  • Oh honey my heart dropped when I saw this post.

    I am so, so sorry for your loss and everything you have been dealing with.  I just want to come give you a big hug and bring you some chocolate.

    I will be praying for you and your husband.

    (((HUGS)))

  • I'm so sorry Monty!  :(:(:( 
  • Ugh I am so so sorry!
  • I am so very sorry,  I was still holding out hope for you. 


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    2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

    I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929

  • So sorry Monty, I know this is so difficult for you to go through. Huge (((((HUGS)))))) and prayers coming your way.
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    TTC Since Dec 2006
    *IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
    *IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
    *FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
    *Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
    *Surprise BFP June 2010*
    *Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
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  • I'm so very sorry. No one should have to go through this. ((HUGS))
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
  • I'm so so sorry, sweetie.
    PCOS, lupus anticoagulant, MTHFR (A1298C, one copy) 2 IUIs & 1 IVF = BFN FET#1 = It's a girl! Born 7.1.10 FET#2 = c/p FET#3 = Twin girls! Born on 3.16.12 at 33w2d due to severe pre-E. After 4 weeks in the NICU they are home! Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
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  • Oh No - I am so very very sorry.
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  • I am so sorry.
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  • I am so very sorry...
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  • I'm so so sorry!
    Stacy
    PCOS, RPL, & Anti Cardiolipin Antibody
  • I am so, so sorry.  (((hugs)))

    Take care of yourself.  You and your DH and in my thoughts.

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    TTC since 11/05...ectopic pg 4/08...early m/c 6/09...BFP 10/5/09!
    Nora B...June 15, 2010...8lbs, 8oz...Med-free birth!
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    TTC #2 since 7/11...cycle #3 of Clomid + IUI = BFP
    Malcolm...September 21, 2012...8lbs, 6oz...Another med-free birth!
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  • I'm so sorry!
    Our first little one is getting big!
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  • I am so, so sorry:(

    TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
    2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
    IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
    IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN :(
    IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
    Lap 7/21/10
    IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
    FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!

     

    James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!

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  • I'm so sorry. It's just not fair. I was really hoping for a miracle. I wish I could give you a big hug and we could sit and eat chocolate and drink martinis together. Or maybe just some jose cuervo straight out of the bottle.

    {{{{HUGS}}}}}

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  • I'm so sorry:( Big hugs to you.
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  • Oh no...I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts.
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • Oh Monty, I've so sorry.  Sending you a huge hug.
  • i am so very sorry monty, big hugs.
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  • Oh no Monty.  I'm so so sorry for your loss.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so very sorry to hear this! ((Big Hugs))

    After many years and tears our baby boy is finally here
    Born 11-6-10

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  • (((hugs))) I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm SO, so sorry. I know how hard this must be for you. So unfair. Hugs.
  • I am so very very sorry.  You are so strong in being able to see the good in all this.  And this doesn't need to be your last post about this by any means.  Hang in there girl and hold onto hope.  
  • i am so sorry...
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  • Oh gosh, I am so so sorry.
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  • Oh I'm so sorry for your bad news.  No words cannot describe what you're going through.
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  • I'm so sorry.  Take care of yourself.  This sucks.

    FRO IF!!!! 

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  • Oh no Monty.  I'm so sorry this is happening.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Big ((hugs)) to you.
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  • So very sorry. :-(
  • I'm so very sorry! 
    TTC #1 since 12/07 SA 9/08=borderline normal HSG 1/09 found R tube blocked Multiple IUIs both with oral and injectible drugs from 2/09-2/11 Started domestic adoption process in 5/10, homestudy complete 9/10 Failed adoption after home with baby for 2 weeks 11/10 Blessed through the miracle of private adoption with a son, born 6/6/11 (his grandma's bday) 7lbs 9oz 20.5 inches long! So worth the wait!
  • I am so sorry Monty!
  • I am so sorry, I wish there was something more I could say (((HUGS)))
  • I am so sorry. IF is so unfair.
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  • (((HUGS))) my friend

    have to fight tears at work, I'm so sorry

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • So so so sorry!! I will be thinking of you and your DH through this difficult time. ?((HUGS))
  • Oh Monty - I am so very sorry. ((hugs))
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