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OMFG: I cannot believe this

I just got a call from embryology.  They are postponing my transfer.  Of the two eggs that fertilized normally, the one is only a 2 cell embroyo and they like to see it be 4 before transfering back.  She said it is slow to progress.  The other one is fragmented.  She said it could just be getting the bad cells out and could still turn around.  Basically she said they were going to keep me posted each day and let me know.  She said the further along the embroyos are the better but if they don't survive they will know how to change the protocol for the next time.....What?  NEXT TIME????  I'm crushed.  And, to top it off, I cannot get a hold of my husband who is probably on his way there now. 
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  • My, God. I'm sorry. **hugs**
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  • I am so sorry.


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    2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
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  • Oh no. I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
  • I'm so so sorry hun! My heart goes out to you.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so sorry.
  • I am so sorry. I am going to pray so hard that those embies are just doing their thing and make it back to you soon! (((((((HUGS)))))))
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  • Oh, ugh, I'm sorry!
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  • I'm so sorry!  Hang in there.  Fingers crossed that your transfer in a couple days will be a success.

    TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
    2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
    IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
    IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN :(
    IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
    Lap 7/21/10
    IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
    FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!

     

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  • Oh, I am so sorry!  I really hope they turn around.  ((((HUGE HUGS))))

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  • I'm sorry!
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • Oh I'm sorry...  ((Hugs))
  • I'm so sorry (((hugs)))
    DX PCOS w/IR 01/08.
    Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
     
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  • Oh No - that is horrible - I am so very sorry ((((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope you get better news in the next few days.  ((HUGS))

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  • O no I am sooo sorry :(
  • I am so, so sorry.  I know that is so heart-breaking.  Hoping that your embies make a turn-around and grow properly so that you can proceed with your ET.  Hugs. 
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  • UGH, no, that sucks!!!!!  I'm sorry.
    TTC Since 2007 M/C survivor twice in 2008 IVF twice at CCRM in 2009 TWIN BOYS born in July 2010 IVF again in 2011 BABY GIRL due August 2012
  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so, so sorry. Ugh. I really don't know what to say.
  • I am so sorry! Hopefully they grow to be beautiful blasts that you get to transfer at day 5.
    To Twinfinity and Beyond TTC since 3/2007 Heterozygous Factor V Leiden Diagnosed with PCOS 5/2008 3 TI Clomid cycles - BFN's 4 IUI various meds - BFN's Sept 2009 IVF #1: 100mg Clomid 125u Follistim, then some Repronex and Ganirelix.
    Beta #1: 223, Beta #2: 996, Beta #3 4,018, Beta #4: 17,000 , Beta 5: 47,000
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  • I'm sorry...{{{HUGS}}}

    I read your blog the other day and your blog got me to start one too...its....

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  • I am so, so sorry!  I hope that you end up with a beautiful blast in 2 days.
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  • I am so sorry... try to stay positive, sometimes easier said than done, but please try your best.

    We will all be thinking of you!

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  • Oh no! I am so sorry this is happening to you. I'm sending embie dust that they turn around!
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
  • I'm so sorry :(
    We are adopting! Currently waiting for our domestic infant adoption match.

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  • I'm sorry, that just sucks.

    I hope your embies continue to divide.

    (((HUGS))

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
  • uggggggg.  that sucks. I'm really sorry to hear that. 
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  • I am so sorry.
    TTC #1 Since August 2004 Dx PCOS
    SAIFW
    6/10 C/P
    6/10 Failed independent adoption
    12/10 C/P
    4/11 Failed independent adoption BM had a m/c
    5/11 Femara and TI= BFN
    6/11 Femara and TI= BFN
    7/11 Break cycle
    8/11 Break cycle
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  • Oh no!!! I am so so sorry!!!

    Hoping and praying for your embies. 

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  • Rebecca I am so sorry. I hate how RE's say next time as if you go into this thinking about next time. At my RE they kept saying that we didn't need ICSI "next time" like I should throw a party and that I was looking forward to a next time. Thinking of you and praying for some better news.
  • Oh dear.  I'm thinking lots of positive thoughts for you that there won't be a next time!
  • I'm so sorry.  I hope you will have some great news in a day or two. 
  • Oh my G-d...I'm so sorry.
  • I'm SO sorry!!!  As hard as it seems, try to hold on to some hope.  There is still a chance of this working, and I'm going to say a prayer for you right now.
  • oh my goodness, I'm so very very sorry.
  • Oh no I am sorry :(
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  • Oh, I am so sorry. I hope that it progresses and you will be able to continue with the transfer even if it's late. ::hugs::
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