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another baby? (really, just a vent)

mnberry18mnberry18
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aaron is almost 7 months old. wow! feels like just yesterday...

so i can't stop shaking the idea of having another baby soon. not only because i "missed" out on being pregnant but because that's what i've always wanted to do...have lots of babies. and i've always thought about them being about 2 years apart. when aaron came sooo early and with no hints as to his arrival whatsoever, i started to question what i've always wanted. but, i know i have nothing to worry about. regardless of anything that comes about with aaron, even if he was a full term baby, i'd still want the best care and do everything possible and put in all my effort to give him the best life. so, now i feel like i don't want to wait for longer than 2 years.

i know i have some more time before we ttc but i have to start thinking about getting this fibroid removed, which is freaking me out. i had an mri done and it turns out it's not in my uterus, it's somewhere behind it and they can't really tell where. this made my dr think that it really did impact the pregnancy b/c it didn't expand away from aaron with my ute, just put pressure on it and him. and, now that we've moved out of state, i have to find a new dr etc.

i'm just totally freaking out about this. DH is a great listener but i get tired of hearing, "it'll be fine". i just needed a place to write it all out. thanks.

oh, and i haven't been posting in a while or blogging b/c we have yet to get cable/internet/phone in our new place in this tiny town! luckily our neighbors who moved in 5 weeks before us have wireless internet for us to "borrow" :)

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  • clyoungseyclyoungsey
    This is the time where I always (2 times now) seem to get baby fever.  I know we are done, but I can't imagine not having another baby or not being pregnant again.  Good luck with sorting it all out..I am sure like you said regardless of what happens you will give your future baby(ies) the best!
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  • TriciaJoyTriciaJoy member

    vent away.
    After Robbie was born I said NO MORE NEVER AGAIN ARE YOU PEOPLE CRAZY?

    Then time passed and things got smoother and we started to think about another. now we'd really like to, but there's SO much to consider.. It's hard.

    I don't think your feelings are odd at all. Good luck on the quest!

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  • RRHsMomRRHsMom
    Ryan was about 7 months when I got the fever too.  We began talking about it around then and although we were both scared of the possibility of pre-e and rds again we decided to try again and be positive.  We never prevented but since I have PCOS we kind of knew it would not happen on our own so at 12 months I weaned and began meds again and we were pg on the 2nd medicated cycle.  When we got our bfp we both felt nothing but excitement and even though the fear creeps in sometimes, I really focus on the blessings we have with Ryan and how no matter what, this pg is a blessing too.  GL with your discussions and settling in to your new home! 
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  • lemen99lemen99 member

    I've been having the fever too but I know we (DH especially) aren't ready.

    Feel free to vent anytime!

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