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Does anyone here believe in "pox parties"

Or even if it's not a pox "party," if you could easily expose your child to a known case of chicken pox (assuming your child is of an age and state of health where it would not be dangerous)--would you do it?
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Re: Does anyone here believe in "pox parties"

  • No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.
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    Alissa Jean

    9.10.2004
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  • Yes.  And this is the one vaccine I regret getting for the kids.  I wish I didn't get it and I would have, if opportunity arised, exposed them as soon as I felt comfortable doing that.
  • Yes, I will. When we had it as kids, we had one with my cousins. I'm sure people will have a cow over this, but when my kids are at an age to have it, we will find it!
  • Don't need to.  DS got chicken pox last month although he had been vaccinated for it.   Luckily, it was a mild case.
  • imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

  • imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    That's what we thought.  DS got chicken pox last month even though he had been vaccinated.  It was mild, though.

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    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Not true. Chicken pox in adults is chicken pox, just a million times worse. Shingles only occurs in adults who had chicken pox as children. 

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    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Then you just get another vaccine as an adult.

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    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Yep, that is why mine will not get the vax and I will expose them the first chance I get.  Only if they don't get it naturally by late elementary would I get them the vax.

    DS - June 2006 DD1 - November 2007 DD2 - August 2010
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    imageJodi&Joe:

    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Then you just get another vaccine as an adult.

    I'll make sure to write it in my date book for 14 years, 7 months and 3 days from now to bring the kids for a follow up chicken pox vaccine!  ;)

     

  • I put off getting the vaccine for as log as I could. They required it for preschool. I don't think I would have tried to give it to him but if he had gotten it it wouldn't have been the end of the world.

      ~~~Big brother 11.29.05 & Little Brother 6.18.09~~~  
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    imageJodi&Joe:

    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Then you just get another vaccine as an adult.

    This is what I thought, too. 

  • No because it can lead to lifelong problems with super fun Shingles.  No thanks.  Kids can die of the pox, they can also have complications ranging from severe scarring to vision impairment.  I vaccinated DD. 
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    imageJodi&Joe:

    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Not true. Chicken pox in adults is chicken pox, just a million times worse. Shingles only occurs in adults who had chicken pox as children. 


     

    But by getting the vaccine, aren't they "getting" the chicken pox, therefore causing shingles in adult life??  I thought it was a live virus vaccines?

  • imageJodi&Joe:
    imagecooker71:
    imageJodi&Joe:

    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Then you just get another vaccine as an adult.

    I'll make sure to write it in my date book for 14 years, 7 months and 3 days from now to bring the kids for a follow up chicken pox vaccine!  ;)

     

    Don't think it's that hard to remember. Not vaccinating them for it never entered my mind. 

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  • No way, I don't think it's a good idea to willingly expose your kids to any type of virus.

    The vax wasn't around when my son was little and I remember asking the DCP to keep him away from a kid who had the pox. He got it when he was 5 and he was fine, but still.

  • When on a vaccination schedule, I do think it would be hard to remember to get one "off schedule."  I don't even know/remember what ones my kids need NOW -- never mind as adults.  I leave that up to the pedi and their medical records when I bring them in.  If the doc tells me "no shots" then I go with "no shots."

    Maybe we will be here in 14 years and you can remind me!!!!  hee,hee

  • When we were kids when we got them, my aunts all brought their kids over so they would all get them at the same time.

    I think in all 10 cousins got it from us. We got it from a "dirty" kid in my little brother's class.

    I got DD the vax.

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  • imageJodi&Joe:
    imagegoodheartedmommy:
    imageJodi&Joe:

    imageMommyofAlissa:
    No way. I just got her the vax and am done w/ it.

    well, done with it until she is about 19 and gets it as an adult because said vax is no longer effective ---- and chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.  God I hate that I got them this vaccine!  HATE IT!

    Not true. Chicken pox in adults is chicken pox, just a million times worse. Shingles only occurs in adults who had chicken pox as children. 


     

    But by getting the vaccine, aren't they "getting" the chicken pox, therefore causing shingles in adult life??  I thought it was a live virus vaccines?

    There isn't a lot known about the correlation between the vaccine and shingles, as it is relatively new and the children who have received it have not grown into adults to see yet if it will be an issue or not. It is different from naturally-occurring chicken pox, though. 

  • I believe pp was right. Shingles occurs in people who had the chicken pox virus. The have a vax for the shingles too, but I think you need to be much older, like in your 50's? I had to have the vax myself. Never had the CP, but then I was exposed when pregnant with my son, I got it after I had him.
    Julian David 8/7/06 and Isabella Mia 5/14/09
  • Absolutely not. Pro-vaccine for chicken pox.

    My sister developed viral encephalitis from her chicken pox infection requiring hospitalization. This was just prior to the vaccine's release.

  • imageJodi&Joe:

    chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.

     

    Shingles is the dormant CP virus flaring up due to stress, compromised immune system, etc. Anyone who had CP carries the possibility to "get" shingles later in life. Adults who get CP get CP - not shingles.

    I had CP as a child, and "got" shingles when I was PG with DD (was under major stress). It was painful - but not "extremely", it was more bothersome and annoying. And left no "life long affects". I am fine and never had a flare up since then. No biggie.

    ~Lisa~
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  • No.  My sister did this with her kids and exposed my iinfant to chicken pox.  I thought that was pretty irresponsible.  In the end, she ended up staying home with her kids for 12 weeks b/c just as one got over it, another came down with it.  Just not worth it, IMO.
    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
  • Negative. DD has been vaccinated, and we'll vaccinate DS as soon as he's eligible. I just don't get the appeal of CP parties. I had the worst case of CP when I was seven. We're talking pox everywhere - all over my body, down my throat, on my scalp, in my ears, etc. Horrible! I was out of school for almost three weeks. And, b/c I got it, my three younger siblings got it shortly thereafter. So, my mother had to take care of four kids with CP all at once. No fun.

    I just don't see the point in subjecting my kids to tsomething like that, if there's a vaccine that can prevent it. You don't see people signing up for measles or polio parties, do you?

    ~Erica, Mommy to Peyton 9/06 & Cullen 9/09
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    imageJodi&Joe:

    chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.

     

    Shingles is the dormant CP virus flaring up due to stress, compromised immune system, etc. Anyone who had CP carries the possibility to "get" shingles later in life. Adults who get CP get CP - not shingles.

    I had CP as a child, and "got" shingles when I was PG with DD (was under major stress). It was painful - but not "extremely", it was more bothersome and annoying. And left no "life long affects". I am fine and never had a flare up since then. No biggie.

    You are lucky!  Both my mother and Joe's gram have had shingles -- and they both still have intermittent pain in the areas where the break out was.

  • No. I still remeber vividily how completely and horribly miserable having chicken pox was and I still have scars. I would never knowingly expose them to that experience. Additonally DH has not had it (knowingly anyway)and seeing as it is more dangerous for adults to get I just went ahead with the vax.
  • Curious Grace --- can he get vaccinated now?  Why doesn't he?
  • We joked about this with our pedi once and she equated "pox parties" to letting your kid play in traffic.

    No, I wouldn't do it.  Why let your child get it if they don't have to?  I remember being miserable with chicken pox.

    DD1 - 12.25.05
    (m/c 1.17.07, m/c 5.15.07)
    DS - 03.15.08
    DD2 - 12.03.09
    DD3 - 3.28.11
  • imageJodi&Joe:
    imageLisa102304:
    imageJodi&Joe:

    chicken pox as an adult is referred to as shingles and is extremely painful and normally leaves life long affects.

     

    Shingles is the dormant CP virus flaring up due to stress, compromised immune system, etc. Anyone who had CP carries the possibility to "get" shingles later in life. Adults who get CP get CP - not shingles.

    I had CP as a child, and "got" shingles when I was PG with DD (was under major stress). It was painful - but not "extremely", it was more bothersome and annoying. And left no "life long affects". I am fine and never had a flare up since then. No biggie.

    You are lucky!  Both my mother and Joe's gram have had shingles -- and they both still have intermittent pain in the areas where the break out was.

     

    I would assume it is because I was fairly young - 31 years old. I would assume risks go up if you are in your 50s+ and get it. I got it all over one side of my hip/waist area. Doc gave me anti-viral and it cleared right up. No scars, no pain, nothing. Never had a smidge of an issue before that or after that! Doc said since i was PG, and seriously stressed out, it brought it out. Bizarre.

    ~Lisa~
    Mommy to Rachel 1.15.06 and Ashley 5.17.11
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  • I wouldn't intentionally expose them to it, but I probably won't get them the vaccine, either. 
  • Jodi, I have never discussed that with my husband and somehow I just don't see him making the time for that these days. Though even if he was vaccinated I would still get the kids vaccinated and furthermore if I chose not to vaccinate them I would not do a pox party.
  • Actually come to think of it I don't know if I would have had them vaccinated without the DH factor..back then I was more spazzy about stuff and I probably would not have. But I don't regret it and definitely want no party  intentionally exposing them to it.
  • If I could find a child with CP we would be swapping sippy cups now. This vaccine has no long term effectiveness, we are going to have a bunch of 20 year old college students come down with the stupid virus that is dangerous as adults and can cause many complications it does not in kids. Do you people seriously think that you or your DS would have gotten a booster at say 21 or 22?

    I am hoping DD and DS both get it if they don't we will have DD vaccinated right before she starts school in 3 years because it is the law.

  • imageLestaMarie:
    I wouldn't intentionally expose them to it, but I probably won't get them the vaccine, either. 

    I'd do your research. Failing to get them the vaccine and not exposing them to it is going to raise their chances of getting it later in life. 

    Spartangirl--equating it to playing in traffic is quite possibly the most ridiculous comparison I've ever heard. Playing in traffic is certain death, getting the chicken pox is not. 

  • imageAndrewsgal:

    If I could find a child with CP we would be swapping sippy cups now. This vaccine has no long term effectiveness, we are going to have a bunch of 20 year old college students come down with the stupid virus that is dangerous as adults and can cause many complications it does not in kids. Do you people seriously think that you or your DS would have gotten a booster at say 21 or 22?

     

    I would guess if it becomes a pandemic, epidemic, whatever ... that is might become mandatory to get the booster to enter college. I had to get something to enter college - tetnus? TB? Something. Maybe they would just tack it on to that.

     

    And yeah, if I had to get the booster, I probably would have. But I follow directions usually - and if my doctor told me I needed the booster, I probably would have gotten it. Plus, I come from a family of doctors - they are usually on top of me about stuff like that. lol

    ~Lisa~
    Mommy to Rachel 1.15.06 and Ashley 5.17.11
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  • yes i would.  vaccines really screw with DS system.  so we have put it off. 

     i would love for him to get it, so he does not have to get a vaccine. 

    BTW, his pedi agrees, after his reactions to the MMR. 

  • No. We've chosen not to give the vaccine, but I won't deliberately try to expose my child to something.
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