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S/O Would you let your DD cut her hair off?

If your dd wanted a pixie cut would you let her chop it all off?

 I would have a hard time allowing my dds to cut their hair off.  Im a girly girl and like to do pig tails and pony tails, braids etc for their hair.  If there wasnt any I would cry.

Im sure I would in the end allow them to have it how ever they want it since it is their hair but I sure would try to talk them out of it.  :)

I do think short hair on girls can be cute.  I will just miss getting to play with it. 

Re: S/O Would you let your DD cut her hair off?

  • Yup. As I said in the previous post, hair battles are not the ones I want to fight.

    Of course, I also had a pixie cut as a kid, and as an adult I had SUPER short hair for years. I still get the urge to chop it like that again.

    AKA KnittyB*tch
    DS - December 2006
    DD - December 2008

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  • I'm very into letting kids have their own style.  I had NO control in that regard growing up and it was weird and creepy.
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  • Probably - but it would break my heart!
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  • Yes, if that's what she wanted.

    I'm very open-minded as far as hair goes. My mom made me keep my hair long through middle school- like down to my butt long. It was awful. I was teased unmercifully. I wanted so badly to cut my hair and get a perm, but my mom flat out refused. I went out with friends one day to the local mall right before I started 9th grade and got my hair totally chopped off. My mom cried.

  • If she really wanted to get it cut, yes, I would let her.

    But first I'd try everything I could to beg, plead and coerce her into keeping it long, LOL. And if that failed I'd probably cry when it came time for the cut.

  • A big.fat.negative here. No

    I know that sounds horrible, but I just can't allow it; at least while she's little. I begged my mother to let me cut my waist length hair when I was five. She caved and I HATED it. Seriously, it was traumatic.

    I don't want my DD to experience hair remorse at such a young age. LOL

    ~Erica, Mommy to Peyton 9/06 & Cullen 9/09
  • Honestly, no!  My dd cut her own (really long) hair off when she was 4 and I freaked! 
  • Their hair is not mine, it's not on my head, and it grows back.  Yep.

    Ditto for DS if he wanted his long. 

  • It's only hair, so yes. same with DS's hair -- if he was old enough to decide he wanted it long, fine (but it would have to be neat).
  • I can't see having much emotional attachment to my dd's hair.  I would like it to look nice, but if they want to try a new style/cut, I think it is important for them to express themselves that way as well as learn any lessons that may come up.  Of course, I have the say that at this age I have the majority of say and control much like I do with their clothes, but when they get to be old enough to have an opinion, I will listen and help them the best I know how. 

     

     

    Valerie ~Charlotte Adele 4.26.05~ ~Audrey Irene 12.19.2006~
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  • My DD got 14 inches cut last week, from her waist to almost her chin. She donated to Locks of Love. I would have preferred she just cut 6 inches or so and kept it long enough to pull up and do cute things with, but she was tired of it and really, really wanted to donate. I'm proud of her for making such a mature choice and it does look cute! I got on board with the "it's your hair/your decision" wave, but it did break my heart a little, lol. She had beautiful hair!
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