I'm almost at my 2nd tri, and I've lost a total of 9 pounds.
I'm a big girl, and my doc is not concerned (I wear a size 18, 5'8", not supersized, but definitely a Lane Bryant shopper). My pants are starting to get tight around the waist, but loose around the butt, lol.
For other plus-sized ladies, when did you start to gain weight? When did you start to show?
Re: Plus size mamas?
I am showing already... but losing weight still.
I was a 14/16 before my pg.
My butt and face look smaller... my tummy is large and in charge.
I was a size 16/18 pre-preg. I started gaining weight about 1/2 way through 2nd tri. I started to show pretty obviously at 19 weeks.
When you are ready to get maternity clothes-hit Motherhood Maternity or Destination Maternity. Motherhood's pants in size XL fit me great! I'm up a total of 13 lbs now and my belly is really getting big and they still are super comfortable. I didn't have to buy plus size because the XL with the secret belly fit are so perfect for my size. BTW I'm 5'8 also!
With DD I was a size 18 pre-pg (5'5") and gained too much weight with her! BUT, I started to really show around 17 weeks and needed the bella band. I started with Mat clothes at 23ish weeks, and that's about when people started noticing that I was pg, not just fat lol.

Things start expanding before you start to show, as I"m learning this time around, so they might start to get tight. I highly recommend the bella band at this point. With this pregnancy, I'm more on the size 20 side (some cushion you just can't lose with exercise, yuk) and started gaining weight sometime in the last month and have gained 3lbs so far. I did lose about 7 in the first tri.
When you buy mat pants, stick with the size you already were and things should fit OK, they are still going to be a bit saggy in the arse just because that's how mat pants are.
GL!
Joe and Ashley ~ June 16, 2007 ~ Olivia Rae ~ May 12, 2008 ~ 9:06 pm ~ 8lbs 4oz ~ 20.5 inches ~ Miscarriage of twins ~ April 16, 2009 at 6 weeks. ~ Surprise BFP 6/23/09 13DPO ~ Eleanor Rose ~ February 18, 2010 ~ 6lbs 15oz ~ 20 inches ~ Caroline Ruth ~ February 19, 2013 ~ 6lbs 12 oz ~ 19 1/4 inches
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I am 5'9" and was an 18/20 pp. So far I've gained 3lbs at the 6 wk appt (when I got 'the weight talk') and gained 3 more between weeks 13-17. My next appt is tomorrow, but I would be surprised if I'd gain much judging from how things are fitting.
I jumped to maternity clothes pretty early, at like 11ish weeks, just because they are more comfortable and I *hate* the feeling of anything tight on my belly now... but I don't think it was obvious to strangers that I was pg until about 16 weeks or so. I am carrying super low though, so to me it just looked like my gut got huge, but everyone around me seemed to think I looked pg (or they are just very kind!)
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