TTC After a Loss

taking another bump break...

And Im also thinking of throwing in the towel on TTC...  I just hate the disappointment month after month.   I dont know how much longer I can take it really..  I dont know how some of you girls keep going month after month only to see AF show..  I get so depressed....

I think its best for me that I stay away from all things TTC for awhile again and revamp...  Maybe I could focus my attention on the trip we will be taking in January and getting my girls ready for competition...  I just need something to look forward too, instead of AF or a BFP... 

I will miss you girls like crazy!  Some of you I am friends with on FB so I can talk to you there...  I just really think I need to stop obsessing over TTC and focus on some other things.. 

I wish you all BFP's!  Bye ladies!

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Re: taking another bump break...

  • We all need breaks from time to time.  Hang in there hun!
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  • Oh no cowgirl! :( im sure we will all miss you !!!!
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  • Definitely do what's best for you amiga!

    We'll miss you though!

  • Sorry to see you go.. I really hope your break does you wonders and I hope that you come back with a nice surprise BFP. Good luck!
  • We will miss you, but know we will always be here if you need anything. 

    IMHO, TTC is like a vortex that you want to quit but for some reason you just can't b/c it sucks you back in.  

    I think focusing on something else other than TTC is healthy.  Hopefully that will give your body time to relax.  

    My RE said that stress can cause many problems for TTC and actually hinder it.  

  • Aww! We are going to miss you... good luck =*o)
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  • We'll miss you.  I totally understand taking a break and shifting your focus and mental energy elsewhere.  (((Hugs)))
  • Totally understood!!  You are such a doll.

    I'll see you on FB!!

  • Aw, we'll miss you, but I understand.  I think you need a little "you" time.  Come back and visit or I just may have to look you up on FB.
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  • I will miss you :O( 
    I hope that you find some peace & are able to balance life out a bit. 
    TTC can be so consuming. (((HUGS)))

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  • Hang in there, girl. You will be missed!
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  • imagesinisterkat01:
    Aw, we'll miss you, but I understand.  I think you need a little "you" time.  Come back and visit or I just may have to look you up on FB.

    You should look me up on FB girl!  :)  Hey I am going to send you a PM... 

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  • Oh cowgirl hang in there!!! We will miss you!!!!! Maybe I'll catch ya on fb...

     

     

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  • Crying I'm going to miss you, and I hate that your temp dropped. Take your time away, and come back with a BFP announcement. ::big hugs::
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  • You were my saving grace during the darkest, first few weeks following my m/c. I've saved several poems and video links from your m/c posts. Thank you.

    I totally understand needing to take a long (and perhaps permanent) break. I wish you all the best of luck with whatever life has in store for you.

     

  • hey girl, i feel ya.  i have had to take bump breaks too.  it's ok and it's good for you.  but now do you see why i'm such a bitter biitch??  we have been ttc for 2 yrs this month and only have one m/c to show for it. 

    a bump break does a body good!  but i will still miss you.  whenever you are ready to come back we will be here...well i'm sure i still will be anyway. 

  • imagetexas77:

    hey girl, i feel ya.  i have had to take bump breaks too.  it's ok and it's good for you.  but now do you see why i'm such a bitter biitch??  we have been ttc for 2 yrs this month and only have one m/c to show for it. 

    a bump break does a body good!  but i will still miss you.  whenever you are ready to come back we will be here...well i'm sure i still will be anyway. 

    Absolutely I understand Texas!  We have been ttc for over a year now and all I have to show is 2 losses.  :(  Im totally feeling you girl..  I hope by the time I come back that you are on SAL!

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  • Awe, I'll miss you.  I totally understand the need to take a break though.

    I'm going to PM you with my FB info.  Please add me :o)

    (((hugs)))

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  • ((hugs))..I know what you mean!  You'll be really missed!!  I hated your last breakCrying.  But you definitely should do what's best for you! 
  • i want to be your facebook friend! and don't worry, i don't ever post about ttc. i'll pm you with my info!
  • Do what you need to do.  We'll be here when you are ready to come back.
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