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TTC After a Loss
People just bug me today..
Thanks for all of you who responded to finding out about my friend you is KU after a Fing one night stand..
So I had DH come pick me up and take me to lunch because I told him I was having a meltdown...really helped....he of course doesnt understand totally but he did help me feel better.
My mom texts me later to see how I was doing so I called her and started crying telling her how it just isnt fair and how it just doesnt seem right that all these girls are getting pregnant and dont want to be and arent married or even in a relationship...
I love my mom but people that dont go through this just dont get it...
all she ever talks about is how she was so fertile and to just stop worrying that it will happen...
thats all anyone says...your young it will happen...
I dont think it wont happen people! FVCK!! but that doesnt mean I didnt lose my baby and actually see everything come out of me on a Fing pad and was crying for days....or the fact that my body still has the Fing hormone in me...or that I keep getting lab bills for all the blood work to make sure my HCG level is going down...because again people I LOST MY BABY...not sad because I dont think I cant get pregnant again..damn people!
I would never want people to go through what we have to get it, but I wish there was a way people could....
sorry vent is over...
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Re: People just bug me today..
I am so, so sorry. People can be so ignorant unless they have gone through this type of loss themselves. My mother was not very helpful either - I just thank god for this board (and the MPL board).
It was my pet peeve (and still us) when people would say, "at least you know you can get pregnant again." Not necessarily true, and as you said, not the point.
I'm sorry, too. I completely agree with everything you said, though. I love this board because I feel so alone IRL; even DH doesn't completely get it and I'm starting to get to the point where I feel like people think I should be over it already.
I hope you have a better day.
people just bug me LOTS of days.
sorry you havin a bad day girl, maybe have some wine and try to relax.
I bought a bottle at lunch for tonight hahaha....im turing on hello kitty for DD around 7 and putting on my soap I have on my DVR and drinking the whole bottle before DH gets home from the firehouse tonight!! He loves me all nasty and drunk...makes sexy time that much better for him haha
you sound just like me. i am addicted to my novela and i drink lots of boones haha. its my mexican arbor mist
totally agree about sexy time. it motivates me to give him some extra attention lol as in bj.