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LAST VENT I PROMISE :)

DianeN9DianeN9
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I'm soooooo completely 100% sick and tired of people who don't have kids and have never been pregnant trying to tell me things they know nothing about. I AM PREGNANT. I AM going thru things. I HAVE experienced symptoms and other fun lovely parts of pregnancy. And then i have someone in front of me whos never been pregnant telling me that ''that symptom doesn't exist'' and ''oh thats not real'' and ''oh thats not normal''

 You're not pregnant. You've never been pregnant. Stop telling me ''pregnancy things'' when you're not only wrong, but you have no idea what you're talking about.

And i'm not talking freindly advice here... im talking people telling me Morning sickness doesnt exist, hormones are all in my head, and cravings are fake. B!tch Please!

 

ALSO ONE MORE MINI VENT =]

The people in my life who don't agree with me being a single mom and having this baby and not doing adoption... i'm really tired of their negativity. AND... i'm tired of people who dont yet have/want kids acting like pregnancy is an infectious disease. My one friend is against having kids before the age of 30, and she thinks that since i did it 10 years sooner than she thinks acceptable that i'm like some swine flu infested freak. She won't talk about pregnancy, she says ew everytime i say something about pregnancy... im annoyed today cantcha tell

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  • SueandSteveSueandSteve
    I hear ya on the first vent.  I have 2 NICU nurse...ahem...friends who are neither married or have children that looooove to provide unsolicited parenting advice.  Oh wait, you're not a parent...much different than teaching on the other side of the crib!   FWIW, I was a NICU nurse too so I already know what you know and then some from experience...Wink
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  • HAPPY4EVAHAPPY4EVA

    What I hate is people always asking " How are you feeling" Do you have nauseau"... I hate telling people my business I keep to my self.. But every morning they ask... Its like leave me alone.......

     Yaya

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  • MFalorMFalor member

    Hey, you're on a roll!  Tough day?!?  Those imaginary hormones getting the best of you?!?

    LOL, weed those negative people from your life and try to find more supportive people to surround yourself with (like us!)

    Big Smile 

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  • acaudill75acaudill75 member
    My mom NEVER got MS and so she keeps trying to tell me that it will get better, oh you sound better than yesterday, etc. Like she knows??? And if I feel better today, it doesn't mean that tomorrow I won't feel sick again. Whatever, next time that creature comes near your desk with its opinion on pregnancy, yack all over its unnatural little face, and then say the puke is only in their head.
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