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Not such a sweet dream...

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I had a dream the other night and I woke up crying... Crying My Grandmother ( who is living and I love dearly) was in my dream and she kept on giving mean looks to me, and I could not figure out why. Later in my dream, which seemed to be forever long but you know they only last seconds, she was giving me the I'm so disappointed in you speech b/c I had lost my baby! Saying that it was my fault for the baby not surviving.Crying And blaming me for all of it!!!

It was by far the worst dream ever!!!!!! Crying

I know she doesn't feel this way, at least God I hope not, cause when I saw her after I had lost our baby she was very sensitive to my feelings and very thoughtful. She wanted to cook me dinner and clean my house!! HA! I love her so dearly!! 

I just don't understand why I would have this horrible dream!!! Girls do you have any idea what maybe my dream meant??

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Re: Not such a sweet dream...

  • PhiPrincessPhiPrincess

    No thoughts on meaning - but I just wanted to say sorry.  What an AWFUL dream to have.

    ::HUGS::

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  • Swede25Swede25 member
    Well, I know dreams come from our subconscious a lot of the time....have you ever blamed yourself for your loss or felt angry towards yourself because of it?  It could be one of those nagging things in the back of your head, and this is how it was expressed in your dream.  That's all I've got!

    TTC #1 since 7/08 After 3 years, 2 losses, 3 rounds of IUI, and one round of IVF, we finally have our dream come true! DS born 7/30/11

    TTC #2 off and on since 7/12

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  • BAM_2780BAM_2780
    I'm so sorry.  What a horrible dream.  Since I've been pregnant I've had a recurring nightmare that I have a baby and neglect him or her.  I realize a day or so after he or she is home that I don't know where he/she is and that I haven't feed them.  In one dream I left him/her between our screen and storm door.  They are always awful dreams.  Hope you sleep well tonight and have nothing but sweet dreams.
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