Parenting after a Loss

For the newer PAL members, about my son if you ever wondered...

Lovesinthehouse on SAL mentioned in a previous post that she didn't know what the acronyms in my siggy stand for.  I just realized that maybe you guys wouldn't know his story, even though most of the ladies with older babes on PAL are pretty well aquainted with it. The acronyms stand for Tuberous Sclerosis Complex and Infantile Spasms. 

Tuberous Sclerosis is a genetic mutation that causes tumors to grow in his organs.  Most commonly in the skin and brain.  He has numerous white skin spots and small bumpy tumors, not really ugly, just there.  And he has about 30+ poppyseed sized tumors in his brain which cause several different issues.  He has developmental delays and multiple daily seizures.  He also has a few larger tumors that may grow at some point and block his cerebral spinal fluid causing encephaly.  We have had 4, soon to be 5 MRIs, a PET and CT scan in his short life.  We have had more than 10 EEGs, and 3 hospital stays, one for a 37 hour EEG, and another for a 72 hour EEG.  The third hospital stay was to learn how to inject him wih ACTH a human growth hormone that is supposed to control Infantile Spasms.  It didn't work.  We are still currently searching for the right combination of meds to control both his IS and his focal seizues. 

He has had several types of seizures since they began when he was 1 month old.  The most serious of these are the Infantile Spasms, which are associated with a regression of skills..meaning that a baby who has learned to sit, roll over, crawl, etc, will suddenly forget how to do these things.  So far, luckily for us, he has had IS for 8 of his 13 months, and we have escaped a true regression, at least in the gross motor skills.  There is no cure for TSC, and the only option is to treat the symptoms.  In his case, the seizures.  We have tried and discarded about 5-7 different anti-seizure meds as ineffective, and he is currently on 3 different anti-seizure meds, for which we are attempting to find the correct dosage to gain control of the seizures.  Every week we change the dosage or add a new drug, and every single week our hopes are raised, and then dashed as he continues to seize.

Most recently, there is some concern of a tumor is his heart causing runs of premature ventricular contractions, for which we are doing a Holter monitor study later this week. 

Development-wise, he is pretty much on time with his gross motor skills, but is behind in his fine motor skills, and significantly delayed in his speech skills.  We count our blessings everyday that he is not worse off than he is, but it is so hard to see others his same age, leaping ahead and learning new things so quickly, when each day can be such a struggle for Linc.

Thanks for reading & caring!

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Re: For the newer PAL members, about my son if you ever wondered...

  • thank you for sharing. Linc is a beauitful little boy.
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  • wow that's a lot to have to deal with :( I'm so sorry! I hope they can find something to help with the IS soon. That's scary to think about losing skills already learned. (huge hugs)
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  • Thanks for sharing.  I hope the study this week goes well.  He is so sweet.
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  • Thanks for sharing!  He is an adorable little boy!
  • {{hugs}} Linc is perfect in my book. 
  • Thank you for sharing!
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  • I actually didn't know the full story either. Linc is such a beautiful boy, and I celebrate every one of his accomplishments with you! He has one of the best smiles I've seen on these boards!

    I will continue to hope for a new solution for Linc.

  • Awe Linc! It was nice to read his story again.
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  • Thank you so much for sharing with us, your little boy is gorgeous.
  • ((HUGS)) You and Linc have been through a lot. I hope you find the right combination of drugs soon.
  • I admire your strength in caring for your beautiful baby boy.
  • Considering all Linc is faced with, I am inspired by all he has accomplished. And your inspire me as a mom, you are so strong and he is SO lucky to have you.
  • Thanks so much for sharing, I've read some of your posts before I was on PAL, but I never knew his whole story.  Big hugs and prayers to you and your family!
  • Thank you for sharing your story! Big HUGS to you and Linc :)
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  • Thanks for posting all of this for members new and old. I think about you and Linc often, and I think he's just gorgeous, and I'm so happy that he will be a big brother :)   
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  • Huge hugs.  I didn't know the full story.  He is one special little boy and you are an amazing momma.  I LOVE hearing about all of his milestones and seeing his sweet face in your siggie. 
  • despite his struggles, i look at linc and simply see perfection.  he's such a sweet boy and he has a strong, strong mommy.
  • ((hugs)) ?I'm not new, but reading your post reminded me again what a tough, tough mommy you are to your adorable Linc. ?
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  • thanks for sharing.  he's adorable!!
  • You and Linc are often in my prayers.  You really are an incredible mama with an amazing little boy.

    On an unrelated note....look at your ticker creeping up!!!  Continued good thoughts for your pregnancy!  :)

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    {{hugs}} Linc is perfect in my book. 

     

    this, we love kinc. ;)

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    imageCrazycrustacean:
    {{hugs}} Linc is perfect in my book. 

     

    this, we love kinc. ;)

     

    umm, yeah - time for me to go to bed... we love LINC! :)

  • I already knew this, but re-read just to familiarize myself again and again was brought to tears. You have a gorgeous son and you are an amazing mother. I am so proud of him for all he's accomplished and will continue to pray for him that he gets better and the right combo of meds are found.
  • You are courageous and amazing parents to little Linc. And he is soooo cute. And by the way - I have not been on much but congrats on the BFP!
  • Thanks so much for sharing that.  I didn't know the full story either.  You are your husband are fantastic parents to Linc!  He is such a lucky boy to have parents like you.  He is soooo sweet and simply adorable!

     

  • Thank you so much for sharing, & I really hope they figure out the right combinations of medicines!
  • Thanks for sharing ;)  I will keep you all in my prayers!  Big hugs

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