Why does my M/C sneak up on me out of the blue- 5+years later?

Jamaica_Bride · August 2009

I get to thinking about her and what she would have looked like. Don't get me wrong I just adore my 2 guys but I am always left wondering...and a little empty.

Brewster · August 2009

I'm so sorry. That has got to be hard. ((hugs))

femmegem · August 2009

(((hugs)))

~iLoVeHiM~ · August 2009

I m/c btwn DC 1 and 2 and I still wonder. I'm sorry and big hugs!

minnasmommy · August 2009

Lisa--its no wonder. I find myself sometimes thinking of YOUR m/c out of the blue some times. Its truly heartbreaking. I'm so so very sorry for your loss. {{{hugs}}}

and of course you love your sons but you miss your daughter---totally 100% understandable, honey! you have so much strength.

xoxo

mommynow · August 2009

I have those thoughts often...it sucks and I'm sorry ((hugs))

minnasmommy · August 2009

fwiw-it's one of the saddest things I've ever heard.

Jamaica_Bride · August 2009

minnasmommy:
fwiw-it's one of the saddest things I've ever heard.

It's because I was probably crying when I told you, hun! Thanks, that means more than you'll ever know.

BubblyToes · August 2009

I'm sorry girl. (((HUGS)))

minnasmommy · August 2009

well---I don't know if you were crying but I know I was! I remember driving and talking to you on the phone with tears streaming down my face!

so so sad!

Amanda&Chris · August 2009

cooker71 · August 2009

*hugs*

I'm sorry Jamaica. I'm sure that would be really tough, regardless of how much time has passed.

LeisureSuitLauren · August 2009

I'm sorry

r9stedt · August 2009

Oh, girl. (((hugs)))

breezee_bean · August 2009

I am sorry.

CBKMRB · August 2009

I'm so sorry.

(((BIG HUGS)))

Susie2005 · August 2009

I totally understand. I sometimes think about mine too. But then I feel guilty thinking about them because if I had those babies I wouldn't have DS and DD. And then that makes me even sadder.

mamarazzi · August 2009

I'm so sorry. That's got to be rough -- especially knowing the gender because it makes her that much more "real."

My m/c would have turned one next month and I think about that baby often. Would it have been a girl? What would she have looked like?

((hugs))

REOM · August 2009

HUGS Lisa

jorie · August 2009

((HUGS)) I lost two babies; the due dates were MH's bday and our anniversary. Kind of makes those holidays a little sad. It's something you can never forget.

Marchmamma · August 2009

Hugs. I still think about my m/c as well.

michaeltrish · August 2009

((HUGS))

I've had 4 m/cs over the past 5 years. Guess I have lots of angel babies waiting for me when I get there.

Kapalua · August 2009

((hugs))

I think about mine a lot...I think how old they would have been and what they'd be doing.

knowing that I wouldn't have N and E if it had played out that way, though, brings me a little comfort. These little people are my life and I can't imagine it any other way.

cristiana · August 2009

I'm so sorry.

pincushions · August 2009

my heart just sank.

I am so sorry. I think something like that, no one ever gets over.

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