Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

First day back to work comments

I had a D&C 2 weeks ago. I was 23 weeks along. Today was my first day back to work. I was really nervous about going back. I work with 100 people ? mostly men. I think I only work with 10 women. I was worried about what they would say, whether or not I would be able to fight back tears, etc. So I thought I?d share the range of comments that I got.

I realized that nobody was out to hurt or offend me, but everyone has a different feeling about what is appropriate. Most of the people either said a simple I?m sorry or said it was good to have me back. Some said nothing ? I think they didn?t know what to say. Many shared that their wives had had mc?s and that they understood. One woman I worked with shared that another co-worker who I am friendly with was looking online to see when I could ttc again. He?s a very sweet person, but it was a bit odd. She shared with me his findings (I?m thinking ? thanks, I?ll just go w/ what my doc said!). I also got a few random questions by people who I think were surprised to see me and blurted out something that they are probably regretting now like ? wow, so how are you feeling physically? Or ? so is everything back to normal? I wanted to tell them that the bleeding has almost stopped and that I?m down to a pantiliner, but decided that was tmi ;)

I hope you got a little chuckle out of this and that you can come up with some good answers to potential questions your first day back!

Re: First day back to work comments

  • I'm glad to hear that your first day back wasn't as bad as you were expecting. You're definitely right though, people just don't know how to react.
    BFP#1 1/27/09 :: Natural m/c 2/6/09 @ 6w
    BFP#2 5/11/09 :: Natural m/c 5/27/09 @ 5w5d
    BFP#3 7/24/09 :: Missed m/c, baby stopped growing at 6w4d :: natural m/c 8/28/09 @ 8w6d
    BFP #4 11/27/09 :: DD born 7/27/10
    BFP #5 2/29/12 :: DD born 11/6/12

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