DH is amazing, dont get me wrong... BUT he doesnt really make me feel good about myself.. We had sex everyday before I started to show.. now Im lucky if I get it once a week.. Its not even that I want sex-it would just be nice to know that he still wanted it. He has been getting better, he will look at me and randomly tell me that I look pretty or something. Maybe it is hormones but I need more
HI said something to him about it and he told me that sex is not top priority right now...WTH does that mean?? ugg
Re: kind of sad.. [short vent]
You can't take it personally. He does need to still make you feel wanted and loved, but that doesn't HAVE to be through sex all the time. It just doesn't work for us that well. We still try and sometimes we enjoy it- but there are parts that weird him out and I can't really say that I blame him, my girly parts are definitely different these days.
We try to spend more time hugging, kissing and laying with each other and it sounds like a load of crap, but that has really helped me get over the feeling "unwanted." I know he still wants me, it's just different right now. It helps that he tells me I'm beautiful ALL the time. He is pretty great.
Try my solution: https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/20976239.aspx
Granted, it was a shot in the dark, but it worked!
i hear ya. my dh actually made the comment 'who would want to have sex with a pg person'. so obviously we are doing not of that, but i cant complain because i dont want to either!
i do wish sometimes he made me feel more attractive though.
I don't think even that would work for me at this point - but I LOVE this idea. Best ever.