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I Wish... Tell Me, What Do You Wish For?

Aiden'sMomAiden'sMom member
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I just wish I was that 37 week pregnant woman, filled of excitement and no fear.

I wish I felt hopeful and naive to all the bad that can go wrong.

I wish I had a due date to look forward to.

I wish for baby Aiden and baby #2 to be healthy and happy in heaven, and know how much I love them.

I wish for a 2010 baby.

I wish no other parents would have to go through what we have been through...

I am sorry ladies for your losses.

BabyFetus Ticker *Baby Aiden: Silently Born on 11-26-08. *Baby #2: M/C on 4-12-09. *Genetic Testing Found MTHFR & PAI1 4G/5G *TTC Baby #3 Since July of 2009: -Fertility Treatments April 2010-February 2011 (Femara, Proverra, Clomid, HCG Trigger, FSH Injectibles, & IUI, as well as Laparoscopy & Hysteroscopy Surgery) *BFP: Febraury of 2011. Baby due 10-24-11!!! :-) ***Baby Angels- Always in Mommy & Daddy's Hearts & Prayers*** ***Prayers For Growing Baby In Belly To Be Healthy***
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Re: I Wish... Tell Me, What Do You Wish For?

  • Aiden'sMomAiden'sMom member
    I wish I could change my life's events, and that I had Baby Aiden in my arms right now.
    BabyFetus Ticker *Baby Aiden: Silently Born on 11-26-08. *Baby #2: M/C on 4-12-09. *Genetic Testing Found MTHFR & PAI1 4G/5G *TTC Baby #3 Since July of 2009: -Fertility Treatments April 2010-February 2011 (Femara, Proverra, Clomid, HCG Trigger, FSH Injectibles, & IUI, as well as Laparoscopy & Hysteroscopy Surgery) *BFP: Febraury of 2011. Baby due 10-24-11!!! :-) ***Baby Angels- Always in Mommy & Daddy's Hearts & Prayers*** ***Prayers For Growing Baby In Belly To Be Healthy***
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  • gomez_917gomez_917
    Im sorry for your losses too.Crying  I wish for a healthy sticky PG too.
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    I agree with all of you wishes.

    I add: 

    I wish I was still excited about trying to conceive. 

    I wish my DH never had to go through all of this also, and see me go through all of this.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • heathergirl67heathergirl67 member
    imagemlmtgg:

    I agree with all of you wishes.

    I add: 

    I wish I was still excited about trying to conceive. 

    I wish my DH never had to go through all of this also, and see me go through all of this.

    Good one.  It was almost worse watching DH lose his boundless, child-like optomism than anything else.

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  • KateAndMarkKateAndMark
    I wish I that miscarriages and pregnany loss didn't exist.
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  • redshoegirlredshoegirl member

    I agree with all of these, and especially these two:

    imageAiden'sMom:
    I wish I felt hopeful and naive to all the bad that can go wrong.

    and  

    imagemlmtgg:
    I wish I was still excited about trying to conceive. 

    I've been so down about TTCing lately. I feel like it's just never going to happen, that I'll just keep trying and trying and getting BFN cycle after BFN cycle. I wish I could feel positive about everything again, but instead I just feel...resigned.

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  • jumagirljumagirl

    imageKateAndMark:
    I wish I that miscarriages and pregnany loss didn't exist.

    This.  If only healthy pregnancies with healthy babies were the only options.   

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  • JenPVHJenPVH

    Definitely this!  Not trying to downplay this. But I also think we would know how precious and miraculous having a baby would be on a higher level and not take anything for granted. 

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  • Addicted2thenotAddicted2thenot member
    I wish I could have the last few months of my life back, I swear since April I have been a shadow of what I used to be. I still do fun things but the amount of times a day I think about getting PG is ridiculous 

    & I wish everything else that you all stated
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  • johannaknipjohannaknip

    I wish I gave a hoot about all of the things I was looking forward to just 2 weeks ago.

    I wish I was going to be pregnant labor day when family is coming in with their perfect baby boy.

    I wish we hadn't told people. I am sick of people walking on eggshells and/or making me talk about it.

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  • black.katblack.kat member

    I wish that none of us have had to go through the pain of miscarriage and loss of a child.

    I wish all babies had the right to life and were respected and wanted as much as all of us want babies.

    I wish for this baby I have in me now grows strong and healthy and that I continue to feel tired and cranky and sick,... :)  even for 9 months!

    I wish all of you get BFP asap!

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  • ColindaPColindaP member

    I wish we could plan for a baby, to avoid things like being pg in summer in Phx (ugh)

    When I get my next BFP, I wish I could be excited about it.

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  • MsPeayMsPeay

    I wish our economy was better for everyone....

    Now me being selfish....

    I wish I had my baby, but now I wish and pray for a 2010 baby, I wish I was pg right now as I am typing and in a couple of days I get a bfp.

    I wish I had a new secure job that made good money that I liked

     (trying to be specific here so if this comes true I can truly get what I want) 

    I wish/hope and pray that my dh and i can always be happy, sometimes it seems too good to be true

    I also wish no one would have to go through this

    One more thing, I wish I didn't have weight issues and could be like I used to, but I will start working on that one day at a time..

    Overall, I wish for happiness and maybe a set of twins ;)

     

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