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I need a drink.

hcmamm1hcmamm1
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I have had such a horrible day today, spending 3 hours having 2 ultrasounds and found no hb.   I feel like a just need a glass of wine or something. I feel like a basket case. And then i have to figure out what the next step is.  Not sure what I wanted out of this post. Just needed to say something.
Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BFP 7/6/09. M/c at 10w5d (8/14/09). Had D&C 8/19/09.
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  • amandaoooooamandaooooo member
    Oh honey I am so sorry to hear your story. I understand where your pain is coming from, a very dark sad place. The day we learned our baby was gone I was devistated, still am really. Hang in there, have your glass of wine, lean on your partner you will need each others support in this difficult time. I am so sorry, we are all here to listen.
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  • priya&peterpriya&peter member
    I am so incredibly sorry to hear this.  We are all definitely here to listen.  What you are going through is so very incredibly difficult but Ihope you willf ind the strength to endure it and heal as much as possible as quickly as possible.  ((HUGS))
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member

    You should have a drink.

    If there's confirmed fetal demise and your baby is gone, I don't see any reason whatsoever for you to keep yourself from having a drink.

    I wish I had other, easier answers for you.  I will say that I had several drinks after each of my losses. 

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  • babes12babes12 member
    i'm so sorry, i'd have adrink, in fact i already had a few glasses of wine.  this week has been hell. 
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • vkbaby09vkbaby09
    I'm very sorry for your loss.  Have a drink and cry as much as you need to.  Don't think that you have to figure everything out right now though...let yourself grieve and then you'll be able to process things better after a while.
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  • MixiePixieMixiePixie
    I am sorry for your loss and I can relate totally.  I found out Tuesday that I had miscarried and DH and I have been drinking every day since.  We had both stopped completely when I was pg, and last night he said we should pick a date to stop again.  For now, though, it helps take the edge off.
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  • smileychic10986smileychic10986
    I am so very sorry for your loss.  Have a drink, or 5.  :(
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