Sorry - More J&K talk

Re: Sorry - More J&K talk

• Bubbles1022

  August 2009

  yeah I think that is totally weird and signifies to me she is having a hard time letting go.

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• Jibbelle member

  August 2009

  I dont have kids that age...but my guess is that they wont notice/care whether  or not she has a ring.....she is doing it for herself.

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• lifesajourney

  August 2009

  I think it's her quiet plea for sympathy.  She wants to make it look like she wants to try and is not the cause of the divorce.  By wearing her rings she hopes it looks like Jon took off and bailed on her and his kids.

  The whole thing with them is so twisted and fake.  It's such a publicity stunt
  

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• Michele57O

  August 2009

  I don't think the kids would even notice if she took it off that is just an excuse.

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• princess4u81

  August 2009

  I actually feel sorry for Kate. I know there were times when she was down right nasty to Jon, but my heart goes out to her. I think she is having a hard time letting go. I don't think she really wants her marriage to end. I think Jon is being selfish. From his intervier in when they were announcing their divorce he was all giddy and happy about this new chapter in his life. He is defintely IMO going through a midlife crisis. I don't want to start a debate this is just my thoughts. I also think they should have stopped filming before it got to this point and worked on their marriage

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• 12bailey18 member

  August 2009

  I think it's a little odd. I think it has a lot more meaning to HER than the kids. I hardly every wear my ring around the house or running errands. My kids will see me with it on and off and not think twice about it.?

  
  

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• Jocelyn0415 member

  August 2009

  According to Jon, Kate was the one who ended the marriage back in October (or something like that). I don't believe she's still wearing her ring for the kids. I doubt 5 year olds notice whether or not she's wearing her ring. I think it's all about appearances. She wants to look like the victim in all of this. Jon is a d-bag too though.

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• Ginkeez member

  August 2009

  The older girls will likely notice and maybe even the younger ones if there was a conversation about the ring and it's significance at some point.  But honesty is the best way to go with things like this.  There is no need to sugar-coat the reality.  The key is to respect the ex-spouse and the kids, but tell them the truth.

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• AMYfromKY member

  August 2009

  princess4u81:

  I actually feel sorry for Kate. I know there were times when she was down right nasty to Jon, but my heart goes out to her. I think she is having a hard time letting go. I don't think she really wants her marriage to end. I think Jon is being selfish. From his intervier in when they were announcing their divorce he was all giddy and happy about this new chapter in his life. He is defintely IMO going through a midlife crisis. I don't want to start a debate this is just my thoughts. I also think they should have stopped filming before it got to this point and worked on their marriage

     I feel bad for anyone who has been cheated on.  Cheating is not right now matter what.

  BTW Lola is adorable!! 

  

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• CBL member

  August 2009

  Pretty sure the fact that their dad isn't around is more of a cue than not wearing her wedding rings.

  It's for PR, as someone mentioned above - to garner sympathy and act as a visual cue that she did not abanbon her marriage.
  

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• CKLee1107

  August 2009

  People tend to forget about the two older girls in this family.  They are old enough to know what is going on and to have opinions and feelings and notice things independently...I feel so bad for all the kids but especially these two girls....

  I agree w/ pp...the kids should be talked to openly and honestly (as much as possible for ages) about what is going on and family therapy wouldn't hurt either...Hey, if tv is screwing this up, and the 'only source of income' lets put some of that blood money to use for the children's mental and emotional health... (sorry, got a little heated there)  I couldn't care less about Jon and Kate's relationship except how it affects those poor kids..I feel bad for all kids in less than perfect situations (all kids) but these ones have to go through all of this in the public eye...how unfair...

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• getnmarried910 member

  August 2009

  12bailey18:

  I think it's a little odd. I think it has a lot more meaning to HER than the kids. I hardly every wear my ring around the house or running errands. My kids will see me with it on and off and not think twice about it.

  This.  I don't think her kids will care.  My rings are off more than they are on at home because of so much hand washing, dishes, butt wiping toddlers, etc. that it's just easier.  I never noticed when my parents didn't have theirs on unless they mentioned it (which was when they each lost their ring at some point).  I think she doesn't want to let go. 

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