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I hate to admit it, but it pissed me off!!! need to vent!

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Today I got news from 2 friends that they are pregnant. My one girlfriend is 4 months pregnant and my guy friends baby is due in November. I am happy for them and I expressed my happiness to them, but they don't know I am having TTTC and also don't know I want a baby. My girlfriend asked me "when do you plan on having another baby? Ur son is what like 9 years old now right? You should get PG so we can have our kids close in age, since your kid will be too old to play with the new baby" No *** really I didn't notice how old my only child is. That *** never crossed my mind. All I could say was yeah maybe some day!!! Ughhh this really sucks!!!
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Re: I hate to admit it, but it pissed me off!!! need to vent!

  • jastl32jastl32
    I'm so sorry! It is hard when you see people all around you. Stay strong :)
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    I'm so sorry! It is hard when you see people all around you. Stay strong :)

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  • CJ71903CJ71903 member
    I hear ya and I'm sick of this stuff too.  My guy friends' baby is due in November too - they conceived on the first cycle of barely trying.  Must be nice!  I also found out two people I know are pregnant yesterday morning via FB and found out that my SIL is pregnant (I found out on Mother's Day of all days - pretty sure I had a huge sobfest that day) via FB.  sigh.  Hopefully we can just keep hanging in there.  ((hugs))
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    I hear ya and I'm sick of this stuff too.  My guy friends' baby is due in November too - they conceived on the first cycle of barely trying.  Must be nice!  I also found out two people I know are pregnant yesterday morning via FB and found out that my SIL is pregnant (I found out on Mother's Day of all days - pretty sure I had a huge sobfest that day) via FB.  sigh.  Hopefully we can just keep hanging in there.  ((hugs))

     

    Yeah my dh is a fireman and one of the guys not only has had 1 baby but his wife just gave birth to their 2nd, and so on and so on!! At every event the wives ask me a bunch of questions, whens the baby coming?? ugghh I stopped going to the events... Oh and my girlfriend still tells me how they weren't even trying they found out when she was 3 months pregnant... blah blah blah!!! 

     

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  • orthomomorthomom member
    I know how frustrating that can be.  I have a 4 yo and people are always saying when are you gonna have another.  I have been trying for 18 months with 2 m/c and you want to yell at them...It isn't always so easy!!! Not everyone just wants to have a baby and poof! they are pg.
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    OMG! I'm so sorry! When people ask me when we are going to have a baby I look them in the eye and tell them that it's not that easy for everyone. (((((hugs)))))
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    Thanks ladies and no it's not easy!!
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