Infertility

If you had $100...

DH and I set up "fun cards" every two weeks we put a $100 on each of our cards.  The cards are our fun money for things like clothes, lunch out, a round of golf...you get the point.   It's a use it or loose it kind of thing so each time it's only put back to $100.  So now I'm sitting here one week in with my first round of $100 and I'm twiddling my fingers trying to figure out what to get.  I feel like a five year old with their first allowance. 

If you had $100 of fun money right now what would you purchase? 

Re: If you had $100...

  • Today I'd do a massage, work has sucked and I could use the relaxation.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Loading the player...
  • Shoes
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm having a massage and pedicure on Saturday and I would probably spend the $100 on a few more "add-ons" that day. Probably a facial and/or a wax.
    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • Something adventurous.... like a white water rafting trip (had my first at age 12, it was a blast) or a weekend camping trip somewhere nearby or maybe finally taking classes for scuba certification (just something i've always wanted to do).

    If you were thinking more low-key.... a massage, a nice lunch out, and a peticure.

    Hope that helps! Let us know what you decide.

  • Can I say get rid of a troll?  Wink

    I'd get a pedicure/manicure and maybe a short massage.  Whatever I could get out of that $100 with those three things. 

    image Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • This is pretty much the same thing that I do with our money!  We go on a Wednesday lunch date every week, sometimes I will buy a new shirt at the mall, if I am really sore I will get a massage.

    This week I bought us a set of nice sheets!

    image
    Daycare is SO exhausting!
    Blog
  • If i had the extra money right now i would buy myself some new underwear! i need it desperatley and a new sports bra for the gym! and def a mani and pedi those two things always make me feel better.
    TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April
  • shoes or clothes... I'm in need of some retail therapy :)

    SAIFW
    TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
    Clomid/Femara no "O"
    IVF #1 BFN
    FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
    FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
    IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
    IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
    FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
    my blog
    image
  • i'd get a message or a mani-pedi...      and with the leftovers buy fun treats (fancy cupcakes/cookies/chocolates/ice cream/wine/booze).  
    Brought to you by IVF, ICSI, limited fert, and oocyte cryopreservation.
    Because we're fancy like that.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • A massage without a doubt.
    1-20-09 BFP third month of Follistim IUI 02-19-09 MC 06-24-09 MC July IUI Follistim Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone=BFN Aug. IUI Follistim Ganirelix ovidrel Crinone=BFP= scared sh**less 10-12-09 MC = 1 ectopic 1 perfect Dec. IUI Gonal-F Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone Lovenox 01-02-10 BFP=scared sh**less again 01-06-10 CP SAIF ALWAYS WELCOME : ) March 2010 - IVF in progress converted to IUI 03-30-10 BFN April 2010 - IVF - BFFN June 2010 - IVF - BFFN July IUI BFP! March 26 2011 Gracie is here! imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic
  • If we weren't saving for our first IVF right now, I'd get a massage every two weeks!
  • New make-up, perfume, or nice pj's/underwear.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageJustBoo:
    So every month you have to "waste" $400 on fun stuff?

     

    I wouldn't call putting some money aside every other week to help you unwind waste.

    image
    Daycare is SO exhausting!
    Blog
  • Thanks for the ideas ladies!  I just scheduled a mani/pedi for this weekend, it's been about four years since I enjoyed some pampering like that...
  • a gift card to somewhere that i wanted something more expensive ;) 

    hmm..DH and i are doing something similar except we have rollover...so I have been hoarding mine in oder to save up for a camera....but...if i haaad to spend it...i would buy...shoes!  or some music i have been coveting off of amazon....although the massage option sounds amazing!

  • mani/pedi and I'd get my hair blown out :)
    TTC #1 May/June 2008
    CP 7.19.08
    Dx with PCOS 3.27.09
    HSG 7.15.09 = All clear
    8.09 & 9.09(re-try) IUI #1/2 - Clomid 100mg Follistim 150iu Ovidrel=cancelled due to cysts
    10.09 IUI #1/2 - Clomid 100mg Follistim 150iu Ovidrel Crinone 8%=BFP!
    22mm Follie / 60mil & 48mil post wash counts Beta #1 (14dpiui)= 102 Beta #2 (18dpiui)= 714 12.3.09 HB 135bpm

    Our baby boy was born on 7.8.10 @ 38 weeks 2 days! 2:17pm 6lbs 8oz 20" long
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    TTC #2
    HSG 2.2013 - IUI 1/2, 3/4 = BFN - Took 4 month forced break
    IUI 5/6 Clomid 150mg Follistim 150iu Ovidrel ( 11 & 15 mil post wash counts) = 2ww
  • imageJustBoo:
    imagePeachyKate:

    imageJustBoo:
    So every month you have to "waste" $400 on fun stuff?

     

    I wouldn't call putting some money aside every other week to help you unwind waste.

    Waste coming from the fact that its a use it or lose it mentality. 

     

    i took that to mean that the money doesn't rollover (so if isn't used within two weeks, it isn't like you get $200 for the next 2 weeks).     i highly doubt the unspent money is lost to them completely...

    Brought to you by IVF, ICSI, limited fert, and oocyte cryopreservation.
    Because we're fancy like that.

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I would get a Coach bag from the Coach outlet - I can usually find one for $ 100 for less

    Or

    A new outfit!!!

    Happy Shopping!!!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I love getting pampered, so I'd say mani/pedi, but if you just recently had one done, then that is not a good suggestion.  Massage would be nice, but so would a killer pair of shoes!  Perhaps a cute outfit?

     

    -- Jackie
    "If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane" -- Jimmy Buffett Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • New running shoes, mine are falling apart... or just shoes, it's been awhile.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Pedicure, lunch, and a movie.  I can't think of what else I'd want.
  • we do this too!  Just with cash....I keep mine and save it up and usually decorate our house with it.
    TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
    BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
    3 break cycles; took clomid 50mg, BFP #2 Beta #1 35, Beta #2 338!!! Owen was born 2/11/11! 
    TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
    BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
    Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
    Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
    Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
    Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
    Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
    Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
    Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
    Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
  • Usually I'd say craft items, new books to read or have fun on iTunes. Today I think I'd go for a pedicure, eye brow wax, a haircut and maybe lunch if I had any money left.

    And thanks to this post I now have the Barenaked Ladies song "If I Had a Million Dollars" in my head.

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"