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the romance is gone...

lnlelnle
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Since tonight is the trigger shot, we're supposed to "take care of business" so my husband can give a fresh sample at the ER. he just called to say he's going to take care of things on his own b/c he's tired and has a headache, and I'm working late and won't be home till 8pm. which is fine with me since I"m so bloated and tired. pretty sad when we can't even follow through with mandated frisky time...
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  • smileesmilee member

    Romance.. what is that?

    That plays no role in baby-making! ;)

    sigh... just one more casualty of IF! 

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  • ginger67ginger67
    OMG I could have written this. Maybe someday it will be back to normal.
    1-20-09 BFP third month of Follistim IUI 02-19-09 MC 06-24-09 MC July IUI Follistim Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone=BFN Aug. IUI Follistim Ganirelix ovidrel Crinone=BFP= scared sh**less 10-12-09 MC = 1 ectopic 1 perfect Dec. IUI Gonal-F Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone Lovenox 01-02-10 BFP=scared sh**less again 01-06-10 CP SAIF ALWAYS WELCOME : ) March 2010 - IVF in progress converted to IUI 03-30-10 BFN April 2010 - IVF - BFFN June 2010 - IVF - BFFN July IUI BFP! March 26 2011 Gracie is here! imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • MrsDonnelly2007MrsDonnelly2007
    LOL, seriously! I haven't seen that in a loooooonnng time...hard to feel in the mood when you're bruised, bloated, and hormonal Stick out tongue
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  • psychmusetlspsychmusetls member
    :sigh:  same here Sad although we do tend to get frisky immediately after AF - i think it's the only time there's no stress so it's more fun lol
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    Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
    PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
    Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
    Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
    Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
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  • MrsP71506MrsP71506

    hmmmmm.... remembering the time when we didn't have someone telling us when and when not to do it. 

    Seems like forever ago! 

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  • EchloeEchloe
    I think the problem is that it is mandated!  Sex should never be mandated.  :  (
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • katerenakaterena

    Oh sweetie, that's all too familiar here too.  Except usually it is me who would be like "We are supposed to have sex tonight...... I left out some really nice smelling lotion in the bathroom for you to use!"

    I'm told that it will get better again!!  Hang in there!

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  • lnlelnle
    imagekaterena:

    Oh sweetie, that's all too familiar here too.  Except usually it is me who would be like "We are supposed to have sex tonight...... I left out some really nice smelling lotion in the bathroom for you to use!"

    I'm told that it will get better again!!  Hang in there!

    you just made me LOL with the nice smelling lotion comment!

    we were so surprised on vacation when we could just have sex whenever and it was actually fun...

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  • Nesting.AwayNesting.Away
    Scheduled sex is so not fun. My DH has an absolute record of coming at me fast when we are in the 2ww after ET. I can't have sex... can't orgasm, yet he pursues me with fierce tenacity. Go figure...
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  • shipoopiisformeshipoopiisforme
    seriously now is the first time in i think a year i have wanted to jump mh's bones, and it's only b/c we aren't allowed to do the deed!
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  • halfnhalfhalfnhalf member
    HA.... you know, I'm surprised this topic isn't brought up more often.  Apparently it's something we can all relate to here in TTTC! 
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  • DMD1029DMD1029 member
    I can sooooo relate to this!!  DH & I started cracking up last night b/c he made a comment about how if this cycle works (I'm on IVF#1, beta on Sat), it will be a true miracle since we haven't actually had sex in a month! 
    TTC #1,
    IUI #1: December 2008 - BFN
    IVF #1: Microdose Lupron - July 2009; only got 1 egg; BFN
    IVF #2: Natural IVF - Sept 2009; BFP!; D&C Nov. 2009
    IVF #3: Natural IVF - ER: Feb 4, 2010 - 1 "M2" egg retrieved; ET: Feb 9; Beta#1 (19dpo): 2567; Beta #2: 6933; BFP w/ singleton w/strong hrtbt! DS born October 2010
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    IVF #4: Natural IVF - ER: Nov. 20, 2011; ET: Nov. 25, 2011; BFP! Beta#1 (19dpo): 1918; Saw hrtbt on 12/28/11!
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