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Poll: If you are planning on having another baby.

When do you plan on TTC the next one.  If you are pregnant feel free to chime in with "yesterday".

For us, I would love to try in either November or February. I know this sounds really weird but I don't want to have another baby in October because I want Brooke's birthday to be special. I would love a June baby but we aren't ready to try next month and I don't want to wait a year. The big gap is just to be safe, because we got pregnant in January and we due in November, but Brooke came early. So you never know!

ETA: Reading that I sound kind of neurotic. And yes, I know anything can happen.

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Re: Poll: If you are planning on having another baby.

  • We are planning to TTC in October next year so we have a June/July baby.  I have two January babies so I would like to change things up a bit.
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  • As soon as we sell our house and I get my cycles back.  Ideally I would like the next two to be around 2 years apart, so I would get pregnant next spring.

    But we aren't using any protection right now.  So whatever happens, happens.

  • We'd like to start TTC again this time next year.  Hopefully, we'll be able to swing that.  I'd like a May baby, I think.
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  • We were planning on TTC next May, when D is about 18 months.  Obviously we got a little ahead of ourselves!
  • Next July/August for hopefully an April/May baby... but we'll see what happens a year from now!

     

    When was Brooke due? I got pregnant late Feb/early March and was due in Nov. 

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  • No protection here, so when it happens it happens. I would love to be sooner rather then later though. I would love to have spring/ summer baby in 2010. Fingers crossed.
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  • fxz109fxz109 member

    We want them close to 2 years apart, 22 months at the closest.   DD was born at 37 weeks, so we'll start trying when DD is 14 months in case I'm pregnant for only 8 months again (8.5 if you insist on counting the two weeks before O.)  That works out to March.

    Ideally, I'd like an April baby, but with my age and potential for fertility issues (not that I had any last time, but I cheated a little) we're not going to waste any time.

  • We want our kids pretty close together, we're thinking of TTC after Stasa's first birthday, so after January.

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  • We will probably try in a couple years! When DD is 2 1/2 or 3 possibly.
  • Not for another 3.5 years since DH is going to law school. I was a little upset about it at first because I loved being pregnant and having a baby. But it is really appealing to me now! I have a few years to get to know Jax on his own and then he'll be in pre-k when the next one is born so I'll get to SLEEP during the day!! And he'll be able to entertain the next one. I'm actually glad about it because we probably would have rushed things. I totally respect those with 2 under 2, but I don't think I could handle it!
  • LLB430LLB430 member
    I want them to be three years apart or more so the earliest we will start is Spring 2011.  
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    When was Brooke due? I got pregnant late Feb/early March and was due in Nov. 

    November 6th. Maybe I SHOULD have said Feb because it was like the last week in January. Unless my date was off but I had two periods that month so WHO knows.

  • I think we'll start TTC next summer. 
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  • Basically we would start trying when AF returns.  However, I definitely want to be pregnant by January 2010. 
  • We're planning to TTC in October when DS is one.  I'm still BFing and haven't had a period yet.  So I'm going to start weaning DS at 10 months and go off the mini-pill mid September.  Although I've been nauseous for the last 2 days...I highly doubt I'm pregnant, but I guess nothing is impossible!
  • We we planning on starting after C's1st b-day, but now I'm thinking of starting early spring so I'm not 8/9 months PG in the summer. I actually wouldn't mind another winter baby.
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  • imageAshKStffr:
    jess---you don't sound neurotic @ all. i'm avoiding tttc from dec-mar bc i don't want another sept baby & i don't want to be in my 3rd tri all summer. we agreed to start trying again june 2010....but it will more than likely be april 2010

    Perhaps we will get pregnant together and name our LOs the same thing. lol

  • Wow, for a second there I thought we were the only ones waiting a few years.

    I don't want them any closer than 2 1/2 years apart. Ideally, next time I would love the baby to be born in May or June. I would love to try next year in August, but that probably won't happen. More than likely we will start TTC Aug. 2011.

  • Our original plan was to start trying when DS turned 1... but it keeps getting pushed ahead :)  I think for everyone's sanity we probably shouldn't (and won't) try until November at the earliest, but I won't be upset if it accidentally happens between now and then :)  I'd love a Sept or Oct. 2010 baby.
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  • We are going to start in jan. that way DS will be around 2 1/2
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  • The end of next summer. I want a full summer of not being pregnant and not bfing. Plus, I'm not returning to work until January 2010, I left in Dec 2008 to have the baby so I need to get some time in before I leave and take a year off again.
  • I posted about this a while back, but my sister is getting married next September, nearly 40 weeks to the day from when I planned to start TTC (November).  DH wants to start trying now, but I'm not ready.  We'll probably wait until December.
  • Right now the plan is to start TTC next summer so we'd have a spring 2011 baby.
  • ideally i would like timmy and the next one to be about 3 years apart. i'd also like the next one to be born between sep-feb. which i know is crazy neurotic. so a year from december we'll probably start trying. fingers crossed things work out on my crazy timeline!
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    imageMrs.AMB07:

     

    When was Brooke due? I got pregnant late Feb/early March and was due in Nov. 

    November 6th. Maybe I SHOULD have said Feb because it was like the last week in January. Unless my date was off but I had two periods that month so WHO knows.

    That makes sense since I was due at the end of Nov, but I was just curious since you said she came early. :) 

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  • Oh, and I just remembered that I am in a wedding the end of May. SO, perhaps I should wait until February/March to get pregnant? lol
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    Probably next summer so that I he/she will come at the end of the school year, since I teach.  But it took 11 months to get pregnant with DS so we might start trying in January so our kids would be 2 years apart at minimum.
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    I don't want to have another baby in October because I want Brooke's birthday to be special. I would love a June baby but we aren't ready to try next month and I don't want to wait a year. 

    Hahaha! I could have written this! I'd really love a summer baby, but I don't want to wait another year. I think we're going to start trying in October (after we get back from vacay) and deal with whatever craziness 2 under 2 will bring (even though the ideal age gap would be 2 years)! 

  • I think we're going to start trying in January. My BFF is getting married in April, and I don't want to be a whale at her wedding. Otherwise, we'd start now!
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  • KMLPKMLP member
    I would like to start trying either next summer or the summer after that.  Ideally, I would like a May or June baby because I am a teacher.  We will see if DH is on board by that time!
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  • We decided after Will was born that we weren't even going to begin talking about #2 until the end of 2010. It took me a year to get pregnant with Will, so we might be looking at baby #2 sometime in 2011 or 2012.
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    We decided after Will was born that we weren't even going to begin talking about #2 until the end of 2010. It took me a year to get pregnant with Will, so we might be looking at baby #2 sometime in 2011 or 2012.

    It just dawned on me that I'm going to be old when this happens. LOL! 

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  • Well we were not really sure WHEN we could start "trying" because I hadnt gotten my period until last week (which was AWFUL btw) but if my cycles continue, we were thinking of starting to try at about October which is when TJ will be one year old.  I should say that we are not trying to prevent right now, just not actively trying.
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  • If It weren't for financial reasons we would try again in about 2 years.  However because of financial issues it will probably be 4-6 years if we get to have another one, which I really really hope we do.  I just want one more. 
  • I'd want a May baby- so that my maternity leave would go to the end of the school yr.
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    imageJimsBride08:
    Right now the plan is to start TTC next summer so we'd have a spring 2011 baby.

    Same here. 

    We can't decide though if we want to throw caution to the wind or really try and plan it.  We got pregnant a few months earlier than expected with Jax because we threw caution to the wind and I never thought we would get so lucky.  Who knows how it will go next time.  We have plenty of time to figure out how to handle it.

  • Really, I'd like to get pregnant in September for another June baby.  But it's just not going to happen, my H wants to get a new job first.  So we're going to try in January for an October baby.  It's way too hot here to be 8 or 9 months pregnant in July or August...September is pushing it.  If it doesn't happen the first month, I'd rather take a break for a few months because I don't want a November or December baby.
  • I'd like to get down to my goal weight first, but I don't think that's going to happen. I'm a good 10 pounds below my pre-pregnancy weight, but I'd like to be below my pre-birth control weight at least, maybe even pre-freshman 15.

    That being said, we aren't using any birth control now, so whatever happens, happens. DH is trying to convince me to have sex every day this cycle, so I guess he is definitely TTC, lol.

  • We are going to TTC next June/ July.  I'm hoping for an April/ May 2011 baby, so that I can spend summer vacation bonding with him/her (I'm a teacher).
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