Wow I really can't do anything right!

Re: Wow I really can't do anything right!

• AvaLikeLava member

  July 2009

  

  
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• kittylove member

  July 2009

  MrsJulieT:

  Just a case of needing to choose your words a little more carefully.
  

  Ya but I've been doing it a lot lately.

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• bunch member

  July 2009

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• soon2Bkranz member

  July 2009

  MrsJulieT:

  Just a case of needing to choose your words a little more carefully.
  

  Yup...and we all do it more often than we know I figure..My only advice is try to be open minded to the feedback...take what fits leave what doesnt

  
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• Mrs.BoomBoom

  July 2009

  I think people have to stop being so sensitive
  

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• shaymo member

  July 2009

  Hugs Ariel !  I don't believe you intended any harm. Your sunshine and always helpful.
  

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• jsugrin member

  July 2009

  kittylove:

  MrsJulieT:

  Just a case of needing to choose your words a little more carefully.
  

  Ya but I've been doing it a lot lately.

  These things happen when you're experiencing a profound lack of sleep, stress and your sick to boot   While I thought it was rude and a shortsighted way to put things I think you're one cool chic and I'm not holding it against you.  Friends hold you accountable for stuff right, doesn't mean you're not still friends.
  

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• SweetieP

  July 2009

  I don't think you did anything wrong....everyone is sensitive about something.  Shoot - if I flamed every person who whined and complained and asked too many questions before their first trimester was even over, my blood pressure would be through the roof.

   

  Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.
  
  
  

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• Ang&Garrett

  July 2009

  I don't think you said anything wrong.  Keeping up with BF should get a pat on the back its hard work and a huge commitment.  You didn't say those who weaned were bad.
  

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• amyfelice

  July 2009

  Posts are like email, a lot of misinterpretation when people can't hear your tone or see your face.

  I'm sure most of the folks know that it was an error in wording/semantics, rather than a true "judgment" or put down. At least I hope they do. Everyone does that occasionally. 
  

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• danandkelly

  July 2009

  I don't think you did anything "wrong" but I also don't think that this post is the right way to go about it.  I think an "I'm sorry for who I offended, it wasn't my intention...I just feel really proud for being able to stick with it" would have been a better tactic.

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• kittylove member

  July 2009

  danandkelly:

  I don't think you did anything "wrong" but I also don't think that this post is the right way to go about it.  I think an "I'm sorry for who I offended, it wasn't my intention...I just feel really proud for being able to stick with it" would have been a better tactic.

  Kelly, I have put my foot in my mouth before and word for word written what you just did. Those offended don't respond with acceptance, nor do they forgive, they continue to feel the way they did before I wrote the apoligy and so I no longer feel the need to say "sorry I put my foot in my mouth", because what is the use in saying sorry if no one accepts it?

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