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And the day goes even more downhill..

Cow-girlCow-girl member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

So I got a call right after I made my last post and had to run to the bank to sign our loan papers.  Our personal banker knows what I have been thru with losing Grace and our other loss.  He's more like a family friend that a banker..  Well anyway, right after I lost Grace he told me his wife accidentally got pg again.  Oh joy..

Well today we go to sign the papers and what does he do?  pulls out a camera to show us the pics of his new son..  Ugh...  I couldnt look at them, but my DH took it upon himself to shove the camera in my face so I could see the pics.  Crying  I wanted to kick my DH in the shin...    I told the banker "Sorry but baby pics are hard for me right now"..  And then he says "Oh yah I forgot but I realized I probably shouldnt have said it right after it came out of my mouth."  Yah but that didnt stop him from cramming the pictures down my throat. 

To top it off this baby was an accident and she had a completely healthy pregnancy.  ITS SO NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!  Im glad that he has a healthy baby (somewhere deep down I am really happy for him).  But it just is so unfair, they didnt even want the baby..  Booooooooooooooo

Sorry to be a debbie downer today.  I just want to run away to somewhere that people dont feel the need to put babies in my face.  *sigh*

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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    hugs, I'm so sorry.  I don't know why he would do that.  I know he is excited but gosh.  I know your DH didn't know any better either but maybe a kick to the shin would be appropriate right now!  (((hugs)))
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • BriAZBriAZ
    I'm sorry, I have those days too. Dont worry.. tomorrow is a new day!! I hope it will be better for you. :::happy thoughts for cowgirl:::
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  • vkbaby09vkbaby09

    That sucks!  You're right - it's so not fair!  I really hope your day gets a little brighter at least and tomorrow is even better. 

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  • BeckyS1211BeckyS1211

    It's totally not fair Lynn...hugs.

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  • someflower6someflower6 member

    to cheer you, i looked up "funniest lolcat ever." i think it's appropriate.

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