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am i a bad fur-mommy?

someflower6someflower6 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

oh my god, it hurts to even write this post... but i come home from work and i'm in a bad mood... crampy, tired, all annoyed at the world. usually i take my dog for a walk but today i was just not feeling it so husband did. then he leaves, i procede to drink a few beers and eat a few (bags of) mellowcreme pumpkins, and the next thing i know-- it's 8:00 and i haven't squezed my dog's face yet! ugh. i felt so bad. so i made sure to give him lots of hugs and kisses and squeezes and now he's passed out on the couch.

this doesn't make me a bad fur mommy does it? i'm at that stage of tipsyness where i could either be in a really good mood or i could start analyzing how not being a good fur mommy is a preminition for how i could never be a good real-baby mom...

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Re: am i a bad fur-mommy?

  • priya&peterpriya&peter member
    Fight the urge to turn into a sad drunk!  You are a great mommy to your fur baby.  you gave him hugs and pats and now he is passed out.  not to mention you are staying in with him!
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  • BriAZBriAZ
    Your post is funny. No I dont think you're a bad fur mommy!! I'm sure he understands... I swear my dog knew that something was wrong w/ me.. he would whine laying next to me.
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  • jjsdpmjjsdpm
    you are NOT a bad fur-mom! your furry baby is probably much more intuitive than you realize, and he/she probably knows you're struggling right now, and is just happy to have your company. (they probably were eyeing the mallowcremes, just waiting for you to accidentally drop one so they could pounce on it, too...=-) he/she is part of your support system too, so no worries there!
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  • AmieVanAmieVan

    imagepriya&peter:
    Fight the urge to turn into a sad drunk!  You are a great mommy to your fur baby.  you gave him hugs and pats and now he is passed out.  not to mention you are staying in with him!

     

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    Pregnancy Ticker BFP #1 6/15/09: Blighted Ovum discovered 7/14/09, D&C 7/16/09 8w3d BFP #2 12/4/09: u/s 12/29/09 hb 164 bpm! 01/15/10 heard heartbeat 150's! DD born 8/10/10 7lbs 13 oz 19" BFP #3 7/6/12: u/s 7/24/12 hb 122 bpm!
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  • vkbaby09vkbaby09
    imageAmieVan:

    imagepriya&peter:
    Fight the urge to turn into a sad drunk!  You are a great mommy to your fur baby.  you gave him hugs and pats and now he is passed out.  not to mention you are staying in with him!

     

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    Exactly - LOL!   

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  • someflower6someflower6 member

    thanks ladies! after i wrote this post, alvin (the dog) and i went upstairs and went to sleep. he got lots of snuggles before bedtime, too, and seemed to be in good spirits. and he got double snugs this morning, from husband and i. i think my dog is slightly in love with my husband, but that's ok, i think it's very cute.

    overall, i think the night went by very nicely!

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