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Im isolating worse than last time.

k827k827
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I dont want to be around friends or family right now and I dont answer the phone when they call because i figure ill spare them the pitty party bad attitude that I have right now and my jealouse feelings that they get to have their familys and I dont.

I have my neices birthday party this saturday night and I really dont want to go but I feel selfish.  bla bla bla vent over!

TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April
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Re: Im isolating worse than last time.

  • LCB34LCB34 member

    Vent all you want...it is good to get it all out.  And, we understand your feelings!

    I have been the same way since our news last week.  I feel bad for being a bad friend but my DH reminded me that "I need to take care of myself first and get well before I can worry about others."  It was a great reminder to me.  So do that, take care of yourself and grieve the loss and heartache that comes with everything you are going thru.

    I will be praying that you start to feel better!

     

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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    Ugh..I'm so sorry!!  I know how you feel!!  I just want to stay at home and cuddle on the couch with my DH and pets.  but it is wedding month in our lives, so we have been on the road the last two weekends and will be heading to Austin next weekend... :(  ((HUGS!!)))  I hope you feel better soon!!!
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  • tapgirltapgirl
    I think the desire to pull away and not deal with people is pretty common - and normal.  I know I've been there.  Give yourself some time to grieve. Little by little, you'll feel better and be able to handle people again. 
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  • Kiki11Kiki11
    Vent away!!  It took me 3 full weeks after my failed IVF to be around anyone other than my husband (and anyone who was forced to come in contact with me at work unfortunately).  Take the time you need. 
    TTC with unexplained IF since 8/2007 6 losses, one beautiful perfect boy in our arms Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • CandTCandT
    Do what is best for you!! Enjoy the alone time and don't feel guilty for it. I hope you feel a little better each day.
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