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My ex-friend's response to her cat issue

I got a response from her about how I would have taken the cat and that shooting it was completely inhumane:

"Oh XXXX, you wouldn't want him, trust me! I couldn't put him off on anyone else, knowing how evil he was. I loved my cat, but I finally had to realize this. He was the devil incarnate. You know he started my parents house on fire, right? He tried to start ours on fire once, too. He was super aggressive and bit people. You wouldn't want him around you other cat! He would terrorize her. He did our other cat, who?s just now come out of hiding...Anyway it was over just as fast as at the vet, and $100 cheaper. I couldn?t justify spending $100 when he?d already cost us close to $2000 between damage to the house and vet bills.your cat! He would terrorize her. He did our other cat, who's just now come out of hiding...Anyway, it was over just as fast as putting him down at the vet, and $100 cheaper. I couldn't justify spending $100 when he'd already cost us close to $2,000 between damage to the house and vet bills.

 And it was a very peaceful end. One minute he was looking at the trees and birds and the next minute he was gone."

Yes, peaceful right up until he got a bullet to the head. Yeah, that's much better than gentle euthanasia, or giving him to me.  Good Lord.

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Re: My ex-friend's response to her cat issue

  • That's disturbing...Sad
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  • This chick is crazy!  I hope to god something is done with her legally.  Also, she is on the list of people who should be sterlized. 
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  • Oh my goodness, that makes me so sick!  Definitely not a peaceful way to go!  And he "tried" to start a fire?  Please.  Maybe if candles or whatnot were put up and away properly there would have been no fire (I'm guessing).  I really want to go punch this girl! 
  • This is disgusting. I personally don't care for cats but I would never harm an animal.
  • I'm sorry.  I just really don't understand how a cat can light a match, or a lighter, or a candle, or create and detonate an explosive device...

    how exactly did the cat "try to burn [their] house down"?

  • She SHOT him?  Holy hell...what a vile person.

    And, seriously - cat as arsonist?  Exactly how do you blame a cat for a fire, unless a candle is knocked over (therefore being the responsibility of the homeowner for not having the candle in a safe place away from the animal).

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  • She is a horrible person. I still don't understand, how did the cat almost burn the house down? Did he strike a match and throw it at a mattress? WTF?
  • Your friend sounds like a sociopath. Totally and completely disturbing!
  • I missed the first post. How did the cat start a fire? By knocking something over? She painted the cat to be an arsonist!
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  • It really is disturbing, but some people just don't feel the same about pets/animals. My husband has a cousin that I could totally see shooting a cat or dog for less. He creeps me out.
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  • Sorry, I'm a farm girl and I understand the shooting vs. vet bill for a needle. However, if you were willing to take the cat then she should have considered her options first. Perhaps she shouldn't have pets if she can't control/train them. Thats just my opinion... flame away...
  • imageJen&Louie:

    She SHOT him?  Holy hell...what a vile person.

    And, seriously - cat as arsonist?  Exactly how do you blame a cat for a fire, unless a candle is knocked over (therefore being the responsibility of the homeowner for not having the candle in a safe place away from the animal).

    This!  >:(
  • imagelibertadw:
    She is a horrible person. I still don't understand, how did the cat almost burn the house down? Did he strike a match and throw it at a mattress? WTF?

    I've been trying to envision how a cat can purposely attempt to set a house on fire, and all I can see are funny cartoons in my head.

    In real life however, he has knocked over lamps. If that's the case, then both my cat and dog are arsonists.

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  • Pet behavioral problems can always be traced back to the owner.  Always.  Either as a direct cause, or as a result of not going through behavioral training.  This biitch has no one to blame for her cat problems but herself, and she should not be allowed to own others.  Ever.

     

  • Th cat is a purposeful arsonist? WTF? She is a nut. Authorities should be notified so that her other animals will be removed from her "care".
  • imageredneck_barbie:
    Sorry, I'm a farm girl and I understand the shooting vs. vet bill for a needle. However, if you were willing to take the cat then she should have considered her options first. Perhaps she shouldn't have pets if she can't control/train them. Thats just my opinion... flame away...

    You would shoot a healthy animal?

  • She has completely lost her mind! 
  • imageToledoDeux:

    imageredneck_barbie:
    Sorry, I'm a farm girl and I understand the shooting vs. vet bill for a needle. However, if you were willing to take the cat then she should have considered her options first. Perhaps she shouldn't have pets if she can't control/train them. Thats just my opinion... flame away...

    You would shoot a healthy animal?

    Definatley NOT!!!  however I have gone that route with a sick & dying animal, that was my point... not that I agree with what she did.

  • This was her FB status on July 6th:

    "I love my cat and I don't want to get rid of him! He is perfectly happy here at home. With his "dominate" parents."

    So what happened between then and now, besides biting her dad again!!!!!

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  • She sounds crazy! I know it's common for people in the country to shoot their sick and dying animals. Never heard of doing that in her situation. She sounds like quite the odd ball. I love how she has no emotions behind it- not even a little....
  • this girl is truly psycho and i really hope she never has children that she can treat like garbage
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  • You should reply that she should've let you make that decision instead of ending the poor cat's life.?

    What a jerk. :( ?

  • Disturbing...and my DH and I agonized over killing a baby bird that got tangled in a nest under our deck and broke it's leg.  Even knowing the bird was dying and it was the right thing to do was difficult.
  • Report her, send her messages to the SPCA
  • imageredneck_barbie:
    Sorry, I'm a farm girl and I understand the shooting vs. vet bill for a needle. However, if you were willing to take the cat then she should have considered her options first. Perhaps she shouldn't have pets if she can't control/train them. Thats just my opinion... flame away...

    Had the cat been sick or severely injured I would agree with this. But to shoot a healthy animal just because you can't handle taking care of it is just disgusting and extremely irresponsible.

  • How exactly did a cat start a house on fire?
  • I haven't read your previous posts but will you call the animal humane society on her?  Shooting an animal is punishable by law and this crazy beotch needs it.  She should never be allowed to own any more animals.  If you turn her in to the proper authorities, they'll never allow her to own pets again and fine her. 
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  • This person has no human feelings whatsoever.  I am so disgusted.  I can't believe how flippant she is being about the whole thing.  It makes me so sad, and not just for the cat.  I hate to say it but I hope karma comes to her and she learns about loss.
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  • imagecurlilocks1207:

    imageredneck_barbie:
    Sorry, I'm a farm girl and I understand the shooting vs. vet bill for a needle. However, if you were willing to take the cat then she should have considered her options first. Perhaps she shouldn't have pets if she can't control/train them. Thats just my opinion... flame away...

    Had the cat been sick or severely injured I would agree with this. But to shoot a healthy animal just because you can't handle taking care of it is just disgusting and extremely irresponsible.

     Agreed! I would never and could never take the life of a healthy animal.

  • Does anyone else feel the Psycho stabbing scene music should be playing when you open this post?  Geez -- that girl has mental problems! 
  • Love = shooting animal in the head.

    Interesting.

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    You should reply that she should've let you make that decision instead of ending the poor cat's life. 

    What a jerk. :(  

    This is what I said back to her: "I have two fiesty animals that would have given Nemo an exciting home to live in. In fact, I bet Roxie would have put him in his place right away. But I guess we'll never know."

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  • I sure hope this is your ex-friend, and now that she isn't your friend you should turn them in to the authorities! They deserve to be punished for being such ignorant humans.
  • PLEASE turn this woman in...that was so wrong....
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  • imageM.Monkey.:

    Love = shooting animal in the head.

    Interesting.

    Exactly!  I just think it's great that she is claiming to love this cat so much.  I practically cry whenever I accidentally step on my dog's paw and hear his little yelp.  To me, THAT is love.  Love is where you care so much for something that you don't want it harmed in any way, let alone having your dad shoot it in the head. 

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  • Indifferent  I am not a cat person at all, and this entire thing bothers the heck out of me!
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  • imageIvana.Stolichnaya:
    Report her, send her messages to the SPCA

    Won't do any good.  I got far enough in vet school to take the ethics class and it's perfectly legal to shoot your own animals (in the head so that they die instantly and not in a torturous way) for any or no reason whatsoever.  Doesn't make it morally or ethically right in this case, but it is legal.

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    imageIvana.Stolichnaya:
    Report her, send her messages to the SPCA

    Won't do any good.  I got far enough in vet school to take the ethics class and it's perfectly legal to shoot your own animals (in the head so that they die instantly and not in a torturous way) for any or no reason whatsoever.  Doesn't make it morally or ethically right in this case, but it is legal.

    I don't know OK law, but it is NOT legal in OP's state.

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