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2nd Trimester
Does anyone view pornography....
as a form of cheating?
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Re: Does anyone view pornography....
Not if we watch it together.
Honestly it's not big of a thing..it's not cheating.
No.
No. Anything that doesn't involve getting touched by anyone else or him touching anyone else isn't physically cheating.
Emotional cheating is another story, but I don't see porn as emotional cheating either. Everyone has their little fantasies.
God no.
Neither one of us enjoys watching it. It makes me feel uncomfortable because of our beliefs. If we did watch it I think it should be together otherwise I would feel like he wanted someone else or that I wasn't enough for him. I have really never told him that though since it's never come up but I would feel a little cheated on. I have a pretty low self esteem though so that might be part of it too.
No.
We actually used to watch it together when we first started dating...about 6 years ago.
Porn a form of cheating? Hell no. It's like my DH is calling these woman up and talking and hanging out with them.
Not at all!
as long as hubby doesnt crash my computer from all the viruses by going on these sites -all is well.
As matter of fact, i have a few of my own dvd's -maybe tmi
in that case, you must think strip clubs are a form of cheating also (??)
I think Porn can be fun..I do not consider that cheating at all..I am a very open person and we like to watch it together...
I do not understand women who are horrified that their partner m*sterbates. It's a biological function that cannot be stopped and it is normal. UNLESS, he chooses it over you. THEN that is a problem...
FI and I were actually talking about going to one together sometime lol. Apparently there's this club down in Tampa that is supposed to be really fun and all the girls have different acts. That sounds like it would be fun to me!
big brothers 12.2009 and 02.2012
I might be going against the grain here, but I have a great self esteem and while I don't officially think of it as cheating, I wouldn't be 100% happy about it. I used to watch it by myself during another relationship and I was imagining being intimate with other people...so I think that is a form of cheating (not an earth shattering form, but not necessarily great for a relationship either).
I think if there's an addiction - then absolutely it's cheating, if he's watching it while you're at home, if you guys aren't having sex, etc., I think it's disrespectful and can make you feel hurt. (But I don't expect guys to understand that from the get go).
And I'm completely fine with strip clubs, but not fine with hotel parties (been down that road - seen the bj's and full sex raffled off, in addition to full touching...don't trust the private parties, but he can get all the t&a he wants from bachelor parties, etc.) We have great fun with it.
We have an awesome sex life and joke about making a video...if I traveled for work I would definitely insist that we make a video - he can pleasure himself to that - rather than paying to watch someone else.
Just my humble opinion and what works for us.
DH and I have gone a few times to some, but back in the day. It was fun! And it was funny to watch all of those guys drooling. Cracked me up!
If it was cheating, I'D be the cheater!
I love (certain) porn, and DH and I consider it a very healthy part of our sex life to watch it together.?
Oh yeah! I've been to a couple here in KC (they're not that great lol) so it's always funny to see the guys that think they actually have a chance with these women!
That's good! My hubby and i have gone to our share of strip clubs.. it's all harmless fun
Not cheating at all!
I guess if it was affecting my sex life, Id have a problem with it.... but I could care less if he watches porn. Ive even watched it myself,
Sarah, 35 bumping from NE Ohio
Married my love 4/22/2006
DD born 10/12/2009
DS born sleeping 2/23/2013 full trisomy 18
Baby 3 due 2/13/2015
definitely not cheating.
Heck No! Then again my hubby isnt into porn!
My ex on the other hand would rather play with himself and a video than the real thing, talk about giving me a complex. Thankful yet again he's my long gone ex!
This was my situation too and my self esteem took a very real hit because of it. Thankfully, my DH isn't into it either. Based on my experience with the ex and the fact that DH knows what an issue it was for me I think I would be hurt if I found out he was watching it behind my back. I don't know if I would call it cheating, but it would definitely be a form of betrayal.