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RPSAL:If you m/c@night or weekend, did you go to ER?

CrazeyJaneyRCrazeyJaneyR member
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Not sure what to do, bleeding now, and I don't know if I should wait it out or go to ER? Not in pain, but I'm pretty sure it's a m/c. Thanks.
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Re: RPSAL:If you m/c@night or weekend, did you go to ER?

  • ChristakimChristakim member
    I'm not sure, I would be inclined to go to the ER, but then again they really can't do much at this point, but it would bring closure if something was happening instead of having to wait till Monday.  I'm so sorry.  Why, why, why does it have to be so hard?
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  • CrazeyJaneyRCrazeyJaneyR member
    I don' t mind pain or anything, i just want to be sure I'm safe and not at risk of ectopic or something that could hurt me and make me unable to take care of Angie.
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  • ChristakimChristakim member
    If you are at risk for ectopic, I would go.
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  • TheSkimmyTheSkimmy member

    I'm so sorry. How much are you bleeding? No cramps? I would probably not go to the ER unless you are going through a pad an hour (don't use tampons) and cramping badly.

    Hang in there... I hope it's nothing. It's not fair!

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  • sunnybrook.sunnybrook. member
    I'm so sorry. Ditto pp. I would only go to the ER if I was bleeding so much I was filling a pad an hour. I went for my first m/c and there's nothing they can do. If you start to have very severe pain on one side that worsens, then I'd go. Hope you feel better soon and there's some other reason for the bleeding. (((hugs)))
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  • LucyPevensieLucyPevensie member

    If you are not in a lot of pain - I don't think there is much the ER folks can or will do for you.  I would only go if you are in a lot of pain - which would be a sign of an ectopic. 

    I'm so sorry you are going through this. 

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  • mrspresleymrspresley
    no advice, just wanted to say i'm so sorry.
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  • Karma1969Karma1969 member

    I'm sorry.  I would go to the ER.  It might not be needed, but it's better just in case.

     

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  • TamTam624TamTam624
    Just wanted to say I am so sorry.
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  • dana316dana316 member
    I'm sorry, I don't have any advice...but I am thinking about you and hoping all is well...
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  • DavezWifeDavezWife member

    I would stay home until another symptom forces me in.

    I am sooooo terribly sorry. I really am. I'm just hurting for you.

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  • lolalillielolalillie
    I am SO sorry that you are going through this :( Is there an urgent care place around instead of the ER? The wait times are less. Hang in there sweetie. I know how badly this sucks!
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  • sixressixres
    Both of mine were on the weekend and I went to the ER.  I wanted to know.  I wanted to make sure that's what was happening.  So I could start the grieving process.  I'm so sorry.  I reallllly hope it's not a m/c.  I was hoping you wouldn't have to go through another one.  Prayers coming your way.
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  • kittylovekittylove member
    I am so sorry. I really hope it isn't a m/c.
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