I'm so bummed and just need to vent. Dh is a commercial airline pilot and has a very different work week compared to most husbands. This month he works Friday - Monday and is home T, W, and Th. A very very good friend of mine is getting married next weekend in Ft. Worth. My mom agreed a long time ago that she would watch E over the weekend while we went to the wedding. It would be our first weekend away. Anyway, Dh has to work And there isn't much hope of getting out of it... someone has to fly those planes! And switching schedules just isn't as easy as it sounds. There is a lot of "red tape" to deal with.SO- next weekend I'll be driving by myself to DFW... I'll attend the bridesmaid luncheon and rehearsal dinner Friday & Friday night. The bride-to-be and I became good friends after college so I really won't know anyone. Saturday is the wedding.... again, I won't know many people. I think I'm a super social and fun person.... but it's hard to go to weddings by yourself. Plus, I lurve me some cocktails... but I'll be driving... so I can't drink much. (I'm staying with friends but they're not going to the wedding.)I know I need to turn my attitude around... but right now, I almost don't feel like going. But I couldn't miss it...-----That said, since it is so much work for me to leave Elise (still BFing so I'll have to pump), I am toying with the idea of skipping the Friday events (bridesmaid luncheon and rehearsal dinner.) The luncheon will be fun I'm sure but I really won't know anyone at the rehearsal dinner... (fwiw, I'm part of the house party, not a bridesmaid.) WDYT? Is that awful of me? The bride-to-be is such a good friend and such a sweetie... ugggg. sad.
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Knowing how social you are, it's a tough call!! Babies sure do through a kink into plans sometimes don't they?? If you are still planning on driving up Friday, I'd try and go to the events anyway. You don't get many chances to socialize w/out little E. But I think if you decide to skip the dinner and luncheon and just go to the wedding, your friend will most likely understand. Babies can also be a great excuse.
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Sigh... what a bummer. Personally, I would skip the Friday stuff IF your friend wouldn't be stuck paying for your plate if you don't show (I know a lot of places make you give a hard head count the week before). I feel super guilty if I make people spend extra money. But 3 events is a lot when you don't know anyone!
I hate doing stuff without DH...before we got married...I was OK with it...but now...yuck! I would probably skip the Friday stuff...your friend will understand...there is so much going on during that time, it will not be a big deal! I always worry and overthink stuff like this...and in the end...it all works out. I say, do something special for YOU....massage, pedi....shopping....
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Ughh.. I know how going to events by yourself can be. I get stuck doing it alot!
I'd skip the Friday events and do something special for yourself.