just read the DNK77 post...

Miss.Modular · July 2009

there is no way that was the first time he ever was controlling and/or abusive. and she had a baby with him??? ay yi yi

renebean319 · July 2009

Confused

RJMbim · July 2009

Though it is likely that he may have given some signs some people are capable of "just snapping"- not unheard of.

mommy411 · July 2009

Well you never know now adays. People loosing their jobs and going off the deep end. I feel for her.

mrsbliven · July 2009

I don't know Mod, sometimes people snap. Luckily she is outta there at the first sight of it.

Jennilynn · July 2009

Ever heard when people are murdered every says "I never thought he was capable- he would never hurt a fly!" Some crazy people are VERY good at hiding craziness...

jkmccall22 · July 2009

I just read it, too. How frightening. Regardless of anything that happened previously, I feel awful for her. I can't imagine being in her shoes.

Pumpkin111 · July 2009

It certainly wasn't the first time he became intoxicated and went to jail.. or that is what I can only infer from this post:

https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/12163883.aspx

Covergirl137 · July 2009

Pumpkin111:

It certainly wasn't the first time he became intoxicated and went to jail.. or that is what I can only infer from this post:

https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/12163883.aspx

I'm pretty sure I remember when that happened... From things she has posted in the past, I'm going to say that there were plenty of signs he has issues, at the very least.

Miss.Modular · July 2009

Pumpkin111:
It certainly wasn't the first time he became intoxicated and went to jail.. or that is what I can only infer from this post:

https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/12163883.aspx

SEE

manda_mullins · July 2009

regardless of the reasons or indicators behind his behavior, i STILL feel so bad for her.?

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I mean, now that I'm a mother I can see how much I'd be willing to try to forgive or work through for the sake of my child having 2 parents. Maybe that's why she stayed even though there were signs of his BSCiness.?

mommy411 · July 2009

ya but that doesn't mean we can't support her. No one deserves to be abused in any way!

Sonya Flanagan · July 2009

How do you know that? People do snap and lose their minds and crazy *** like this happens. Can't you be supportive for ONCE? Thank God the poor girl got out with both her and her daughter's lives.

thenewmrsrussell · July 2009

manda_mullins:
regardless of the reasons or indicators behind his behavior, i STILL feel so bad for her.

I mean, now that I'm a mother I can see how much I'd be willing to try to forgive or work through for the sake of my child having 2 parents. Maybe that's why she stayed even though there were signs of his BSCiness.

Yes

SWMcFarland · July 2009

Yup...I remember all of that too.

FyshWyfe · July 2009

thenewmrsrussell:
manda_mullins:
regardless of the reasons or indicators behind his behavior, i STILL feel so bad for her.?
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I mean, now that I'm a mother I can see how much I'd be willing to try to forgive or work through for the sake of my child having 2 parents. Maybe that's why she stayed even though there were signs of his BSCiness.?
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Exactly this

ToledoDeux · July 2009

manda_mullins:
regardless of the reasons or indicators behind his behavior, i STILL feel so bad for her.

I mean, now that I'm a mother I can see how much I'd be willing to try to forgive or work through for the sake of my child having 2 parents. Maybe that's why she stayed even though there were signs of his BSCiness.

I'm not criticizing or applying this to DNK, since we don't really know what her situation was....but I think if my husband was showing violent or BSC tendencies, I'd be MORE likely to take it seriously or leave if I had a baby.