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Beta Negative
Well ladies it was negative, I'm taking one for the team. I don't even know what to say or do right now, I think we are both numb. This was our last chance and it failed so we are going to regroup and try to figure out how to live life without children. I'm sorry this isn't coming out very well, more jumbled than anything. I wanted to get my post out there, I don't know where I'm going to go from here. I wish all of you the best and will cherish this wonderful group of strong women, you all have a special place in my heart and always will.
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Re: Beta Negative
Kel - Im so sorry to hear that. My heart breaks for you and your H. Please take care of yourself. IF and IVF suck!
Best of luck with whatever path you take - Im so sorry that this didnt work for you. I will keep you in my prayers.
oh no! my heart goes out to you and your DH. I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope soon you and your DH can put together a great plan and find lots of happiness. Please take care of each other. I, along with all the other wonderful women on this board, are thinking of you. Am so sorry for your news
Meg
TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs
This just is not fair. I am so sorry honey. I'm sending you lots of love and hugs and even though you're looking at living child free - please stick around.
I know that you'd be missed and you're welcome here no matter what, sweetie.
((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))))
OH NO! I am so sorry Kelly
I am so sorry. I know how you feel as I have severe endo and ivf 1 and 2 both failed, I don't know your particular situation more than what your siggy says, but if you are thinking about treating your endo, I just want to let you know that I did lupron depot before ivf 3 and it finally worked. I know you said it was your last chance, but if you are at all thinking about treating the endo and perhaps somewhere down the road getting back on the rollercoaster, lupron depot may be a big help by calming down the endo and helping with implantation. HUGS to you!
This is just so heartbreaking... I'm so very sorry.
Jaime & Brent
Oahu, Hawaii | Sept. 9, 2005
My Food Blog - Good Eats 'n Sweet Treats
Early loss 10/08
Lap 1/09
IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
2 frosties but don't know what's next
FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
I am so very sorry. I know nothing anyone can say can make you feel any better, I just want to let you know I'll be keeping you and your dh in my thoughts and prayers.
((hugs))
Jenn
"The Sisterhood of Infertility" Blog
Cycle#18=BFP....M/C @ 7w2d...heartbroken
IUI #1 (cycle 25) = Chem PG, IUI # 2 Cycle 32 = BFFN! SURPRISE--- We're PG!! Break Cycle BFP November 2009!!!! M/C # 2
Sadly, a Mommy to 3 Angel Babies
"A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality." John Lennon
TTC Since Dec 2006
*IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
*IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
*FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
*Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
*Surprise BFP June 2010*
*Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
Thoughts from an Overwrought Mind
SAIFW
2 Ectopic Losses = 2 surgeries = 1 unusable tube
IVF #1 June 2009 = SUCCESS! EDD 3/7/1
LBK: I don't know what to say. My knee jerk reaction is to say "it's not over yet! it can't be!" but I also know that only you know when you are really done. I hope you will change your mind, but will support you 1000% whatever path you choose.
Keeping you in my thoughts and sending big old cyber hugs...
I am a runner, knitter, scientist, DE-IVF veteran, and stage III colon cancer survivor.
My blog: Making Me Mom