This is just my thought on the MrsC2b and whether or not it's her. I think the MrsC screenname was just a cover and ther person doing it knew they were going to get caught. I cannot even begin to tell you how to find someone's dh's address...so whoever has been doing these things, this, ILH, mamarazzi....obviously knows how to use a computer and do some searching. So either MrsC was just playing dumb...or the MrsC name was a fake in order to give everyone a name to automatically assign blame too.
Did you notice the common demoninator in both of the posts referenced in that email to your DH? Besides the fact that you posted in one and were the OP in the other, they both involve "gkatieh" and her posts about the early gender detection of her baby. My theory is that you genuinely ticked her off and she is crazy. Hence, the emails to your DH. Just my guess. That is seriously effed up, though. I would contact the Bump administrators in regards to it & just mention my theory.
Um, I know I called you out earlier but I just wanted to reassure you that never in a million years would I have thought to do something crazy like that. Over the line for sure.
Did you notice the common demoninator in both of the posts referenced in that email to your DH? Besides the fact that you posted in one and were the OP in the other, they both involve "gkatieh" and her posts about the early gender detection of her baby. My theory is that you genuinely ticked her off and she is crazy. Hence, the emails to your DH. Just my guess. That is seriously effed up, though. I would contact the Bump administrators in regards to it & just mention my theory.
GL!
I think you might be on to something. She went more than a little BSC with that.
Boston, So sorry that someone has nothing better to do with their time. No one in their right mind would do that.
Wow!!! Spooky! The fact that she tracked down your husband is unreal. I have seen some messed up trolling on these boards but this takes the cake. I'm sorry your husband had to be pulled into these boards.
I know I don't post here and I don't know you from Adam, but I just have to tell you that I'm so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately, I've been there. It wasn't on the bump, but a different message board and it wasn't my husband who was emailed - it was my boss - and I was fired over it. Because I had posted on company time and because some batsh!t crazy person was able to identify my employer (by literally piecing together information from hundreds and hundreds of posts where I never gave an actual name... just an industry... and later on a city... and then a reference to Starbuck's across the street, and so and so forth - they sussed it out...), they let me go.
It was devistating and mortifying and infuriating and I'm so sorry that you're going through this. People don't realize what happens when they start messing around with someone's real life - and the resulting consequences aren't part of a silly game or "snark". It's dangerous and hopefully someday there will be a legal consequence to this kind of cyber bullying.
Try not to let it consume you - good luck and take care....
I had some crazy person on the Knot post all sorts of personal info about me years ago so I understand how violated you feel. How awful and untrue that someone would say you are an unfit mother over something so ridiculous. I'm so sorry.
Did you notice the common demoninator in both of the posts referenced in that email to your DH? Besides the fact that you posted in one and were the OP in the other, they both involve "gkatieh" and her posts about the early gender detection of her baby. My theory is that you genuinely ticked her off and she is crazy. Hence, the emails to your DH. Just my guess. That is seriously effed up, though. I would contact the Bump administrators in regards to it & just mention my theory.
GL!
This is exactly what I was thinking. I'm so sorry! That girl was way out of control earlier; I hope your DH has a reasonable head on his shoulders and can laugh at this!
I think the Administrators should get a head's up about this, because this is complete and utter invasion of privacy... Wow... I'm just speechless.... I hope whoever this person is feels good about making such an enormous a.s.s. of themselves...
Holy crap. Wow, sorry this happened to you. Crazy people like this are one of the things that scare the crap out of me. How can you stalk someone like that.... and find their DH?!?!
Re: Soooooo, who wants to admit to emailing MH?
Wow. Unreal.
This is just my thought on the MrsC2b and whether or not it's her. I think the MrsC screenname was just a cover and ther person doing it knew they were going to get caught. I cannot even begin to tell you how to find someone's dh's address...so whoever has been doing these things, this, ILH, mamarazzi....obviously knows how to use a computer and do some searching. So either MrsC was just playing dumb...or the MrsC name was a fake in order to give everyone a name to automatically assign blame too.
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Did you notice the common demoninator in both of the posts referenced in that email to your DH? Besides the fact that you posted in one and were the OP in the other, they both involve "gkatieh" and her posts about the early gender detection of her baby. My theory is that you genuinely ticked her off and she is crazy. Hence, the emails to your DH. Just my guess. That is seriously effed up, though. I would contact the Bump administrators in regards to it & just mention my theory.
GL!
That is beyond fu_cked up. And I have been here a looooong time.
I emailed you...
I have no words.
You will be missed, BostonMama.
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People are crazy. If you leave, they win. I'd stay just b/c of that! lol
Boston, So sorry that someone has nothing better to do with their time. No one in their right mind would do that.
Wow!!! Spooky! The fact that she tracked down your husband is unreal. I have seen some messed up trolling on these boards but this takes the cake. I'm sorry your husband had to be pulled into these boards.
Is this serious? Who does something like that, seriously???
WTF?
MrsColleton? Isn't she local to you...?
I know I don't post here and I don't know you from Adam, but I just have to tell you that I'm so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately, I've been there. It wasn't on the bump, but a different message board and it wasn't my husband who was emailed - it was my boss - and I was fired over it. Because I had posted on company time and because some batsh!t crazy person was able to identify my employer (by literally piecing together information from hundreds and hundreds of posts where I never gave an actual name... just an industry... and later on a city... and then a reference to Starbuck's across the street, and so and so forth - they sussed it out...), they let me go.
It was devistating and mortifying and infuriating and I'm so sorry that you're going through this. People don't realize what happens when they start messing around with someone's real life - and the resulting consequences aren't part of a silly game or "snark". It's dangerous and hopefully someday there will be a legal consequence to this kind of cyber bullying.
Try not to let it consume you - good luck and take care....
This is exactly what I was thinking. I'm so sorry! That girl was way out of control earlier; I hope your DH has a reasonable head on his shoulders and can laugh at this!
This, exactly.
that's crazy
maybe the chick in 1st tri who "found out" she was having a boy at 12 weeks?
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I think the Administrators should get a head's up about this, because this is complete and utter invasion of privacy... Wow... I'm just speechless.... I hope whoever this person is feels good about making such an enormous a.s.s. of themselves...
thats nuts!?
What effing idiot(s)!
What kind of person loses their mind over the nest? And e-mail's husbands???
Good Grief.
I have 3 kids and over 11,000 posts. And am a SAHM as well. Does that make me an unfit mother?
I highly doubt it.
Yeah, because kids NEVER play on their own, right?
DD would swat me away if I watched her all day, and probably try to crawl away.?