"you really need to get m to take a bottle so someone else can soothe her."?
Um... it's not the milk that's soothing her or any other baby for that matter. It's the snuggling that goes along with nursing or giving a bottle. It's the closeness that she feels. When she's upset she just wants to snuggle with her mommy. Maybe she just doesn't like the way "you" snuggle. Maybe she doesn't want a wanna be clown trying to cheer her up when all she wants is a good snuggle. Maybe if you did it right, she'd be soothed by "you".?
Grrrrrrrrrrrr?
Re: I am so tired of people saying....
Sounds like your MIL has been at it again, huh?
There is nothing that will replace mommy..some people will never get it.
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