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Anyone else's DH not sure they want another one?

lhulllhull
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I don't think DH knew how hard it was going to be and he keeps telling me he is not sure he wants a second (he wanted 2 before DS).  Drew has colic but it's getting better.  Did your DH's change thier mind about more kids?  I am told it gets better, and it is. 
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Re: Anyone else's DH not sure they want another one?

  • pretty_helmetpretty_helmet member
    i'm the one who isn't sure.  if i left it up to DH i would be knocked up right now.
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  • ChefBritChefBrit
    from the start my SO has said only one only one.. blah blah.. and i caught him slipping up the other day saying something about the second one.. dd was not colicky  but it really does get better and better.. around three months is when my SO and DD really started to click.. they now hang out all the time.. he puts her to bed three nights a week, and does bath time almost every night.. just give them time this first little bit is so draining and hard and stressful.. even i was thinking.. only one!
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  • htomeohtomeo member
    DH isn't sure yet. But even though this is my first child, we have 4 in the house already.
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  • trinisetrinise member

    You will completely forget how hard it is right now. It gets so much easier when they are able to walk and talk and become independent, IMO.

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  • lp0418lp0418 member
    My SO had always wanted 2 kids, but since DD's been here he is not so sure anymore. I think now that she is getting a bit older and easier to deal with he seems a bit more open to the idea of more kids at some point but definately not as close in age as pre-DD ( 2-3 yrs apart).
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  • jl_ncjl_nc
    Dh wanted more, but since i had a c section, he doesnt want any more. i was terrified of having more, but now, as i see DD growing so fast, that i am open to having at least one more....later
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  • Hillary UdyHillary Udy
    He always wanted lots of kids, until now.  He's fine w/just our little man.  I want more though. 
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  • Crissy&JoshCrissy&Josh member
    My DH insits that he will only want one. I would love to foster/adopt if he is willing to do that.   
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  • icyblueeyez19icyblueeyez19 member
    DH wanted 3 before Adelyn was born, but now he says he wouldn't mind if it is just her. He says he won't be able to love anyone as much as he loves her. I think he will change his mind when she gets a little older. I refuse to let her be an only child anyways.
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  • erin.merin.m
    Dh is being a big baby.  I definately want more but he's not sure.
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  • redhead1214redhead1214

    imagelhull:
    I don't think DH knew how hard it was going to be and he keeps telling me he is not sure he wants a second (he wanted 2 before DS).  Drew has colic but it's getting better.  Did your DH's change thier mind about more kids?  I am told it gets better, and it is. 

    I am in the same boat. DH wanted one more, and I did not. Now it is the other way around. I also want to start trying in January, so I am hoping his mind changes soon.

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